Have you ever wondered if you'd be missed at church if you were absent for an extended amount of time? Would someone on the pastoral staff come by to check on you? Would someone from your Sunday school class call? Would anyone take the time to contact you at all?
Most likely, you have established friendships in your local congregation and you would be missed. It might take some time, but sooner or later someone would follow up on their concerns for you. However, there are those sitting among us that might never receive that follow-up card or call.
While it is hard to believe, people fall through the cracks, or in our case, the pews each year. They slip out the back door unnoticed while fellow church members continue on as nothing has changed. Oh, their absences might be noticed on Sunday morning, but by Monday they have once again been forgotten. No one feels close enough to them to be the one to call to check on them. And there in lies the problem.
The body of Christ is like a family. Some are well-liked and well-connected. Others hang precariously on the sidelines watching like the quiet uncle that attends every family reunion. He's always there, but he never really visits with anyone. It is the church members who shy away from personal interactions and social gatherings that can easily be overlooked.
Consider Jesus' words in Matthew 25:44-45.
‘Lord, when did we see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger or needing clothes or sick or in prison, and did not help you?’ He will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did not do for one of the least of these, you did not do for me.’
I have always related the 'least of these' with persons outside the walls of my church home, but what if the 'least' are those we overlook among us? Are there those among us who are needing? Or lonely and in spiritual prisons we knew nothing about? Are we unaware of their needs because they haven't announced them and we've failed to ask?
Take time this Sunday to look at everyone around you. Who seems to be hanging on the sidelines? Are there people that seem to be friendless? Who slips in and out without much interaction? Does anyone sit alone week after week? What can you do to minister to those you identify?
Reach out and make a connection. It might not be easy. It will probably take continued efforts and self-sacrifice. Yet, isn't that what discipleship is all about? Didn't Jesus demonstrate this concept time and time again. Besides, it could keep someone from falling through the pews.
Tuesday, February 12, 2013
Friday, December 14, 2012
God With Us
The prophets prophesied Messiah would be called Emmanuel, which means God with us. Looking to this prophecy, the people of Israel expected Messiah to come and walk among them. That He did. They hoped He would remain with them and save them from the rule of their Roman oppressors. He did not. God had a better plan.
God's master plan, set in motion from the when He spoke the world into existence, allowed for redemption of many more than the Jews alone. His plan for salvation extended to all people. His choice to suffer and die allowed you and I to be adopted into Christ's family. We, too, have become His sons and daughters.
Although His plan required Him to leave us physically, spiritually He has remained. He continues to walk among us. His presence is evidenced in many ways. For example, I love to watch (and feel) His Spirit move across a worship service as He ministers to His people. What I witness each time is unexplainable. I also love when He shows up in my personal times of worship and prayer. His extravagant love is overwhelming and beyond words.
How have you experienced Emmanuel this week? He is with you. Take time to stop and sense His Holy Presence.
God's master plan, set in motion from the when He spoke the world into existence, allowed for redemption of many more than the Jews alone. His plan for salvation extended to all people. His choice to suffer and die allowed you and I to be adopted into Christ's family. We, too, have become His sons and daughters.
Although His plan required Him to leave us physically, spiritually He has remained. He continues to walk among us. His presence is evidenced in many ways. For example, I love to watch (and feel) His Spirit move across a worship service as He ministers to His people. What I witness each time is unexplainable. I also love when He shows up in my personal times of worship and prayer. His extravagant love is overwhelming and beyond words.
How have you experienced Emmanuel this week? He is with you. Take time to stop and sense His Holy Presence.
Wednesday, December 12, 2012
All You Need
Isaiah 9:6 is one of the most well known messianic prophecies. Many people can quote the verse, or at least list the descriptive words used to distinguish His name above all others.
"For a child will be born to us,
a son will be given to us;
And the government will rest on His shoulders;
And His name will be called Wonderful Counselor,
Mighty God, Eternal Father, Prince of Peace..."
Isaiah 9:6 NASB
As Jesus Christ grew into a man, we saw evidence of the Mighty God at work among the people. He explained to His followers that He and the Heavenly Father were one. As we read His life story, we see the peace He restored to countless lives. We too have experienced the Holy Spirit He sent.
What Christ began in His earthly ministry continues today. He still provides peace. He still lives within the hearts of man as they are filled with His Holy Presence, called the Wonderful Counselor here in Isaiah. And one day soon, He will return and we will see the government rest on His shoulders as He rules the nations.
As you celebrate his arrival so many years ago and prepare for His second coming, which of these messianic promises means the most to you in your current life season? Have you experienced the miraculous lately, as He has shown Himself to be the Mighty God? Has His peace allowed you to walk through difficult circumstances? Have you been dwelling in His Holy Presence as He draws you into a deeper relationship with Him?
Jesus Christ is everything you need. Allow Him to prove Himself in your life in each role listed in Isaiah 9:6.
"For a child will be born to us,
a son will be given to us;
And the government will rest on His shoulders;
And His name will be called Wonderful Counselor,
Mighty God, Eternal Father, Prince of Peace..."
Isaiah 9:6 NASB
As Jesus Christ grew into a man, we saw evidence of the Mighty God at work among the people. He explained to His followers that He and the Heavenly Father were one. As we read His life story, we see the peace He restored to countless lives. We too have experienced the Holy Spirit He sent.
What Christ began in His earthly ministry continues today. He still provides peace. He still lives within the hearts of man as they are filled with His Holy Presence, called the Wonderful Counselor here in Isaiah. And one day soon, He will return and we will see the government rest on His shoulders as He rules the nations.
As you celebrate his arrival so many years ago and prepare for His second coming, which of these messianic promises means the most to you in your current life season? Have you experienced the miraculous lately, as He has shown Himself to be the Mighty God? Has His peace allowed you to walk through difficult circumstances? Have you been dwelling in His Holy Presence as He draws you into a deeper relationship with Him?
Jesus Christ is everything you need. Allow Him to prove Himself in your life in each role listed in Isaiah 9:6.
Monday, December 10, 2012
Christ - A Solid Rock
Exodus chapter 17 supplies another glimpse of Jesus and the future foundation He would provide for all men. In this chapter, we find Moses and the Israelites wandering in the wilderness. They are weary, tired, and above all else, thirsty. While the people grumbled and complained, Moses sought the face of God for direction.
In Exodus 17:6 God replies "Behold, I will stand before you there on the rock at Horeb; and you shall strike the rock, and water will come out of it, that the people may drink."
Allegory is one of several methods that New Testament writers used to interpret the Old Testament. An allegorical interpretation acknowledges that in addition to the literal meaning of a passage, it also holds another, deeper meaning.
1 Corinthians 10:4 refers to the Israelites in their wanderings and reads "and all drank the same spiritual drink, for they were drinking from a spiritual rock which followed them; the rock was Christ." In this verse, Paul allegorizes the accounts of God giving Israel manna and water from a rock during their time in the wilderness. Paul asserts that Christ was that rock which provided Israel with water in the wilderness.
Not only was Christ the rock provided for the peoples of Israel, He serves as our spiritual foundation. From Him flow spiritual food and drink. Jesus is a spiritual rock which we can stand upon. During times of unrest and confusion, stand firmly on the solid ground He provides. If you remain close to His side, your steps will be established and He will keep you from all harm.
In Exodus 17:6 God replies "Behold, I will stand before you there on the rock at Horeb; and you shall strike the rock, and water will come out of it, that the people may drink."
Allegory is one of several methods that New Testament writers used to interpret the Old Testament. An allegorical interpretation acknowledges that in addition to the literal meaning of a passage, it also holds another, deeper meaning.
1 Corinthians 10:4 refers to the Israelites in their wanderings and reads "and all drank the same spiritual drink, for they were drinking from a spiritual rock which followed them; the rock was Christ." In this verse, Paul allegorizes the accounts of God giving Israel manna and water from a rock during their time in the wilderness. Paul asserts that Christ was that rock which provided Israel with water in the wilderness.
Not only was Christ the rock provided for the peoples of Israel, He serves as our spiritual foundation. From Him flow spiritual food and drink. Jesus is a spiritual rock which we can stand upon. During times of unrest and confusion, stand firmly on the solid ground He provides. If you remain close to His side, your steps will be established and He will keep you from all harm.
Friday, December 7, 2012
Gifts Beyond Christmas
Psalm 68, a messianic psalm, describes the Christ as One who
gives gifts to men, loading them with benefits. The apostle Paul refers to this
passage as he writes of Christ’s fulfillment of the prophecy in Ephesians
chapter 4. Read the following passage which includes verses 7-13.
7 But to each one of us grace was given according to the measure of Christ’s gift. 8 Therefore He says:
“When He
ascended on high,
He led captivity captive,
And gave gifts to men.”
He led captivity captive,
And gave gifts to men.”
9 (Now this, “He ascended”—what does it mean but that He also first
descended into the lower parts of the earth? 10 He who descended is also the One who ascended far
above all the heavens, that He might fill all things.)
11 And He Himself gave some to be apostles, some prophets, some evangelists, and some pastors and teachers, 12 for the equipping of the saints for the work of ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ, 13 till we all come to the unity of the faith and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to a perfect man, to the measure of the stature of the fullness of Christ;
Jesus Christ’s gifts to us extend far beyond the gift of His coming. He continues to gift individuals to lead His Church. In addition, He equips our lives to live victoriously in this last day. The person gift of equipping you and I can be a great testimony to the power of the resurrected Christ.
Think of your own life. How many times have you relied on Christ to carry you through a situation that was too hard to bear on your own? How many times have you stepped out in faith and God has provided the courage and strength you needed to complete the task He set in front of you? How many times has someone asked you “How did you ever…?” and you replied “It was God!”
Every situation you recall is a product of God’s giving.
As you prepare for Christmas, take time to stop and reflect on the many gifts God has given you. Equipping you to live a victorious life is just one. Look around you and acknowledge His goodness to you. He gets great pleasure by gifting you, His child. It is one of the reasons He came.
Wednesday, December 5, 2012
A Bruised Head
The first glimpse of our Savior leaps off the page early in the
book of Genesis. In Genesis 3:15, God tells the serpent the Seed of a woman
will bruise his head. God predicts enmity between Jesus and the devil.
Throughout the New Testament, we see the devil plant doubts in the hearts of
the people and stir up hatred in the hearts of the Jewish leaders. While Satan
hoped for victory, when Christ rose from the dead his triumph over evil was
complete. Evidence of His victory is recorded in the following New Testament
verses.
Hebrews 2:14 [NKJV] reads “that through death He might destroy him who had the power of death,
this is, the devil, and release those who through fear of death were all their
lifetime subject to bondage.”
1 John 3:8 “…the Son
of God was manifested, that He might destroy the works of the devil.”
While Christ’s work of salvation is complete, He continues to
bruise the devil’s head.
Jesus continually works on our behalf to thwart the plans
Satan has for us. While Satan schemes and manipulates circumstances to harm us,
God’s good plans for us prevail. Christ not only redeemed us from eternal
damnation, He redeems our lives from the heartache and destruction of sin.
In Genesis 50:20 Joseph explains to his brothers “But as for you, you meant evil against me;
but God meant it for good.”
Do you find yourself wondering about your current circumstances?
Is it hard to recognize the big picture from your view point? Yes, it is true
that the devil is working against you, but your Messiah will continue to put
him in his place. As you remain in Christ, the devil cannot harm you. Your
Savior has overcome and will bruise the serpent’s head as many times as needed
to ensure your victory!
Monday, December 3, 2012
A King Will Come
Jesus was and still is the most talked about person in history. From the creation of the world, all the earth awaited His arrival. 700 years before His birth, the prophets were talking about Him. Today people still call on His Name.
On a quiet night in Bethlehem, something miraculous happened. The King the people watched for arrived in a humble stable. A star shone brightly in the clear sky; one that was unexplainable by man. The heavens opened and a host of angels sang. The lowly shepherds heard the announcement and rejoiced. Where were the others? Did they turn a deaf ear as they continued to attend to the busyness of life?
Wise men from the East arrived as they followed the star and inquired of the people "Where is the King?" Although the scholars poured over the scrolls to give their answer, only three wise men traveled to Bethlehem to worship. Where were the others who cherished the promises of a Soon Coming King?
Although many watched and wondered when He would appear, all but a few missed His coming. It is hard to comprehend how so many watched but didn't see. How could a day longed for by so many be missed completely when it arrived?
We shake our head and think "Lord, if I had been there I would have believed!" However, a close examination of our own lives provides evidence to the contrary. How many times has Our Savior shown Himself at work in our own lives, but we fail to recognize His work? How many times does He offer spiritual nourishment, yet we fail to see the package He presents it in?
Over the coming weeks, RTG will provide a glimpse at the messianic prophecies which foretold the coming of the Christ. When we examine the words of the prophets, we can know Jesus more fully and are better equipped to recognize the work of Christ in our own lives.
As the day in which we celebrate His coming draws near, let us watch with eyes wide open. He is at work even today. Tune your ear to hear the voice from heaven. He will speak to your heart as you bow down to worship Him.
On a quiet night in Bethlehem, something miraculous happened. The King the people watched for arrived in a humble stable. A star shone brightly in the clear sky; one that was unexplainable by man. The heavens opened and a host of angels sang. The lowly shepherds heard the announcement and rejoiced. Where were the others? Did they turn a deaf ear as they continued to attend to the busyness of life?
Wise men from the East arrived as they followed the star and inquired of the people "Where is the King?" Although the scholars poured over the scrolls to give their answer, only three wise men traveled to Bethlehem to worship. Where were the others who cherished the promises of a Soon Coming King?
Although many watched and wondered when He would appear, all but a few missed His coming. It is hard to comprehend how so many watched but didn't see. How could a day longed for by so many be missed completely when it arrived?
We shake our head and think "Lord, if I had been there I would have believed!" However, a close examination of our own lives provides evidence to the contrary. How many times has Our Savior shown Himself at work in our own lives, but we fail to recognize His work? How many times does He offer spiritual nourishment, yet we fail to see the package He presents it in?
Over the coming weeks, RTG will provide a glimpse at the messianic prophecies which foretold the coming of the Christ. When we examine the words of the prophets, we can know Jesus more fully and are better equipped to recognize the work of Christ in our own lives.
As the day in which we celebrate His coming draws near, let us watch with eyes wide open. He is at work even today. Tune your ear to hear the voice from heaven. He will speak to your heart as you bow down to worship Him.
Friday, September 7, 2012
Near Drought Conditions
Rain has
been a scarce and sacred thing in the Midwest this summer. Everywhere I look the
once green and luscious landscape is brown and brittle. People have engaged in
all out war just to keep lawns, flowers, and bushes alive. Even well
established trees are in danger because the water table in the ground has
receded by significant levels. Surprisingly, although the grasses are dead,
weeds seem to be thriving. People are still mowing, but only to take out the
weeds which continue to sprout in the desolate conditions.
As I marveled
at the resilience of the weeds, I can’t help but make comparisons to my own
spirituality. In the gospel of John, Jesus explains to the Samaritan woman that
He provides Living Water. Jesus explains that all who come to Him will never thirst
again. Connecting with my Savior allows Him to fill me each day with this
Living Water He so generously supplies. But often, I let my time with Him
decrease until I am living in near drought conditions. When this occurs, the
fruits of the spirit struggle to survive and the weeds of the flesh seem to
flourish.
In his letter, James describes two types of living
conditions. In chapter 5, James reveals that those who live in earthly
conditions (lack of spiritual water) will see envy, bitterness, and selfish
ambition quickly grow. Those who remain connected to the Source of Life will
experience good fruits such as peace and mercy.
Here are a
few questions to help you take inventory of your current growing conditions:
- What characteristics seem to be multiplying the quickest in your life?
- How would you currently describe the spiritual climate in your life, your family, and your church?
- How often and in what ways are you connecting to the Living Water?
- What action steps can you take today to help replenish the water table in your soul?
“Whoever drinks the water I give him
will never thirst. Indeed, the water I give him will become in him a spring of
water welling up to eternal life.” John 4:14
Tuesday, May 15, 2012
Hands That Grab
A lot has changed since my last blog. My little girl has grown into an active five month old. It has been a joy to experience this stage of motherhood again. Having older children too, each milestone with Lea has provided new memories and allowed me to revisit old ones as well.
Lea has reached the age where everything looks inviting. Her little hands reach out to grab onto anything available: a toy within her grasp, the mobile over her head, and my hands when I reach for her. She latches on with surprising strength and holds tight. Getting an object away from her can be quite a task.
Most times, I encourage her and praise her efforts, but not always. Sometimes her little hands reach for things that could cause her pain. Objects with sharp edges and extreme temperatures are a few items I have to remove from her reach. Other times her hands reach out to grab and accidentally cause another pain. The time she grabbed her cousin's hair and wouldn't let go was somewhat traumatic for them both. Lea has not yet learned what objects can be trusted and what items need to be avoided. That knowledge will develop over time. On the other hand, I have the knowledge needed to keep her safe. It is my job to protect her.
Even as adults, we are reaching for objects that make themselves available to us. The items adults find desirable look much different. Material possessions, meaningful relationships, and financial security are a few examples. Some items are safe and healthy. Others have the potential to cause pain to ourselves and those around us. While experience might help us in making choices, the Bible reminds us that the wisdom of man doesn't always result in the wisest choice. Our Heavenly Father has the wisdom we need to know which items to pursue and which items to avoid. James 1:5 tells us God is willing to impart His wisdom to any who asks Him for it. In addition to wisdom, God has provided other items He desires us to reach out and take hold of.
Here is a small sample.
But perfect love drives out fear... 1 John 4:18
May the Lord of peace himself give you peace at all times and in every way. 2 Thessalonians 3:16
Ask and you will receive, and your joy will be complete. John 16:14
What items are you striving to gain hold of today? Are they worldly items or things of God? Holding on to the things of God is always safe. If your life is not full of joy and peace, maybe you need to reach for them. Your Savior offers them to you today. Grab ahold and don't let go.
Lea has reached the age where everything looks inviting. Her little hands reach out to grab onto anything available: a toy within her grasp, the mobile over her head, and my hands when I reach for her. She latches on with surprising strength and holds tight. Getting an object away from her can be quite a task.
Most times, I encourage her and praise her efforts, but not always. Sometimes her little hands reach for things that could cause her pain. Objects with sharp edges and extreme temperatures are a few items I have to remove from her reach. Other times her hands reach out to grab and accidentally cause another pain. The time she grabbed her cousin's hair and wouldn't let go was somewhat traumatic for them both. Lea has not yet learned what objects can be trusted and what items need to be avoided. That knowledge will develop over time. On the other hand, I have the knowledge needed to keep her safe. It is my job to protect her.
Even as adults, we are reaching for objects that make themselves available to us. The items adults find desirable look much different. Material possessions, meaningful relationships, and financial security are a few examples. Some items are safe and healthy. Others have the potential to cause pain to ourselves and those around us. While experience might help us in making choices, the Bible reminds us that the wisdom of man doesn't always result in the wisest choice. Our Heavenly Father has the wisdom we need to know which items to pursue and which items to avoid. James 1:5 tells us God is willing to impart His wisdom to any who asks Him for it. In addition to wisdom, God has provided other items He desires us to reach out and take hold of.
Here is a small sample.
But perfect love drives out fear... 1 John 4:18
May the Lord of peace himself give you peace at all times and in every way. 2 Thessalonians 3:16
Ask and you will receive, and your joy will be complete. John 16:14
What items are you striving to gain hold of today? Are they worldly items or things of God? Holding on to the things of God is always safe. If your life is not full of joy and peace, maybe you need to reach for them. Your Savior offers them to you today. Grab ahold and don't let go.
Tuesday, June 21, 2011
Prepared for Peace
Do you believe that God is intentional in all He does? Not just about directing you in ministry, or the big decisions in life. Do you believe He is involved in even the slightest details? I do and here is my latest proof.
Around the beginning of November, I felt a calling to devote time to the memorization of Scripture. I love to study and my writing for Response to Grace Ministries keeps my nose in the Word on a regular basis. But I had never really committed to memorizing God’s Word and hiding it in my heart and mind.
As God started dealing with my heart regarding this matter, I discussed it with my dear friend and accountability partner, Susan. She revealed that God has been speaking to her about the very thing and we committed together to memorize two verses a month throughout the year 2011. In addition, after prayer, Susan felt as if we should memorize verses with a specific theme and/or content. I agreed and began praying for direction.
Through prayer, God directed me to the first verse He desired for me to learn. Psalm 118:1-2 [NIV]
I love you, O LORD, my strength.
The Lord is my rock, my fortress, and my deliverer.
My God is my rock in whom I take refuge. He is my shield and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold.
As December got underway, I wrote my verse on a small index card and started memorizing. I was excited with my new adventure and even decorated a small box to hold all my verses in with the following verse:
I have treasured Your word in my heart so that I may not sin against You. Psalm 119:11
I had no earthly idea how important the contents of that small box would become in the coming months and year.
When Christmas was just days away, my husband was informed his job would be ending on December 31st. The business contract his company had with the State of Illinois was not being renewed. While there existed a slight chance the company would be given a small extension into the New Year, we knew he would soon be out of a job. I held tight to the verse God has supplied for me and reassured my husband that God would provide.
As my husband diligently searched for a new job, I chose my second verse for January and wrote it on my index card.
You are my hiding place. You will protect me from trouble and surround me with songs of deliverance.
Psalm 32:7
Thankfully, God provided my husband with a new job by the middle of February. During this month, God led me to other verses regarding His ability to rescue and save.
Daniel 5:26-27
Proverbs 30:5
March began and my family and I settled into our new routine. With gratitude, I wrote my all time favorite verse on my index card on March 1st.
“For I know the plans I have for you” declares the Lord. “Plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future.”
Jeremiah 29:11
By the middle of March, it became clear that my job would be eliminated at the end of the school year. With budget cuts my school district faced, there was no alternative position for me. I would soon be unemployed. I continued to lean on God and allowed Him to direct me as I choose verse after verse to sustain me.
Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ.
Before March came to an end, I discovered this soon-to-be forty-year old was expecting another child. I cannot begin to describe to you the feelings I experienced. But more than any other, God supplied this unworthy girl with peace.
I cannot report an ability to quickly quote verbatim each of the verses I have on the index cards in my little box. But I have successfully hidden their message in my heart. My mind is at rest and I experience sweet peace. There are twelve verses stashed there now and each reminds me that He alone is my provider. His plans for me are good.
And I am so thankful that He took the time to prepare me for the journey. His subtle prompting to memorize His word did more to prepare me and give me peace than any other act besides daily time spent in His presence. If we only listen and obey, He is so intentional about providing us exactly what we need.
Around the beginning of November, I felt a calling to devote time to the memorization of Scripture. I love to study and my writing for Response to Grace Ministries keeps my nose in the Word on a regular basis. But I had never really committed to memorizing God’s Word and hiding it in my heart and mind.
As God started dealing with my heart regarding this matter, I discussed it with my dear friend and accountability partner, Susan. She revealed that God has been speaking to her about the very thing and we committed together to memorize two verses a month throughout the year 2011. In addition, after prayer, Susan felt as if we should memorize verses with a specific theme and/or content. I agreed and began praying for direction.
Through prayer, God directed me to the first verse He desired for me to learn. Psalm 118:1-2 [NIV]
I love you, O LORD, my strength.
The Lord is my rock, my fortress, and my deliverer.
My God is my rock in whom I take refuge. He is my shield and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold.
As December got underway, I wrote my verse on a small index card and started memorizing. I was excited with my new adventure and even decorated a small box to hold all my verses in with the following verse:
I have treasured Your word in my heart so that I may not sin against You. Psalm 119:11
I had no earthly idea how important the contents of that small box would become in the coming months and year.
When Christmas was just days away, my husband was informed his job would be ending on December 31st. The business contract his company had with the State of Illinois was not being renewed. While there existed a slight chance the company would be given a small extension into the New Year, we knew he would soon be out of a job. I held tight to the verse God has supplied for me and reassured my husband that God would provide.
As my husband diligently searched for a new job, I chose my second verse for January and wrote it on my index card.
You are my hiding place. You will protect me from trouble and surround me with songs of deliverance.
Psalm 32:7
Thankfully, God provided my husband with a new job by the middle of February. During this month, God led me to other verses regarding His ability to rescue and save.
Daniel 5:26-27
Proverbs 30:5
March began and my family and I settled into our new routine. With gratitude, I wrote my all time favorite verse on my index card on March 1st.
“For I know the plans I have for you” declares the Lord. “Plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future.”
Jeremiah 29:11
By the middle of March, it became clear that my job would be eliminated at the end of the school year. With budget cuts my school district faced, there was no alternative position for me. I would soon be unemployed. I continued to lean on God and allowed Him to direct me as I choose verse after verse to sustain me.
Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ.
Before March came to an end, I discovered this soon-to-be forty-year old was expecting another child. I cannot begin to describe to you the feelings I experienced. But more than any other, God supplied this unworthy girl with peace.
I cannot report an ability to quickly quote verbatim each of the verses I have on the index cards in my little box. But I have successfully hidden their message in my heart. My mind is at rest and I experience sweet peace. There are twelve verses stashed there now and each reminds me that He alone is my provider. His plans for me are good.
And I am so thankful that He took the time to prepare me for the journey. His subtle prompting to memorize His word did more to prepare me and give me peace than any other act besides daily time spent in His presence. If we only listen and obey, He is so intentional about providing us exactly what we need.
Saturday, April 2, 2011
Passivity, Procrastination, and Peril
Have you ever watched a difficult situation play out and known it could have been prevented? I have. I am currently experiencing one such situation. As I type, I am waiting for my children to awaken so I can tell them our second litter of kittens did not make it through the night.
Just over a year ago, our children requested kittens. My husband and I relented and allowed our daughter to get two kittens from a friend at school. We requested the kittens be males. We planned to do the responsible thing and have the cats fixed to prevent lots of kittens at neighboring houses as soon as they were old enough. (I preferred male cats to female cats because the vet fee for the males to be fixed is much more affordable- I am always looking for the cheapest route)
When the kittens arrived, we were assured the kittens were males. I took a good look at those kittens and I just couldn’t determine if they were truly males or not. I searched the internet for information on sex identification in cats. A second, third, and really numerous examinations of those kittens left me concerned. I voiced my belief that the kittens might be female but didn’t expend the effort or the money to load them up in the car and take them to the vet.
Spring passed and summer arrived. I still couldn’t find any signs of maleness on those kittens. Every once in a while I would make the statement “I think those cats are female!” and my husband would chuckle. In no time at all a year had passed and spring was upon us once again. By now I knew those cats were females and I started talking about getting them to the veterinarians.
Although I talked, I didn’t act soon enough. Those young cats became young mothers with rounded bellies. I was not pleased at the thought of finding homes for soon arriving kittens and I still had to look forward to a hefty bill from the vet in a few weeks. I would have those cats fixed to prevent a second round of mothering.
The first cat had just one kitten which was stillborn earlier in the week. The second cat had three beautiful kittens, but they did not live past the first day. I know my children will be heartbroken. I am saddened for them, but I am angry at myself. The pain they are experiencing today could have been prevented if I had not been passive about the situation. It could have been prevented if I had not procrastinated.
The pain my family is experiencing this week is small when compared to other tragedies that are possible in this life. My mind recalls a teen mother that I know who is struggling with guilt, shame, and rejection by her family. I know of women and men who have allowed lust to lead them down a road they never dreamt they would travel. I know parents who watch as their children turn and walk away from God.
Much of our difficulty and pain are brought on by decisions we make along the path of life. God calls us to holiness. This separation unto God is for our benefit. It protects us from the sin that eventually leads to pain and heartache. Holiness doesn’t result from passivity. If you intend to live a life that is pleasing to God, you must live it intentionally. When you recognize an area of weakness or a propensity toward sin, you must act immediately. The devil never fights fair. His goal is your spiritual death and he will do everything he can to win the battle. A pursuit of holiness places you in step with your Commander In Chief. You are most protected when you fight the battle next to His side.
In addition, God calls us to stand as a guard at the watchtower. When you see those you love heading in the wrong direction, please do not procrastinate. The devil wars for their soul as well. Reach out to them in love. Pray in earnest and the Spirit will guide your actions and your speech. Encourage them to pursue holiness.
My friend, passivity and procrastination lead to peril. Holiness is a heart set on God in everything you do. Pursue holiness with renewed vigor. It is well worth the effort. The benefits are eternal. Live intentionally for Him!
You are to be holy to me because I, the LORD, am holy, and I have set you apart from the nations to be my own. Leviticus 20:26 [NIV]
Just over a year ago, our children requested kittens. My husband and I relented and allowed our daughter to get two kittens from a friend at school. We requested the kittens be males. We planned to do the responsible thing and have the cats fixed to prevent lots of kittens at neighboring houses as soon as they were old enough. (I preferred male cats to female cats because the vet fee for the males to be fixed is much more affordable- I am always looking for the cheapest route)
When the kittens arrived, we were assured the kittens were males. I took a good look at those kittens and I just couldn’t determine if they were truly males or not. I searched the internet for information on sex identification in cats. A second, third, and really numerous examinations of those kittens left me concerned. I voiced my belief that the kittens might be female but didn’t expend the effort or the money to load them up in the car and take them to the vet.
Spring passed and summer arrived. I still couldn’t find any signs of maleness on those kittens. Every once in a while I would make the statement “I think those cats are female!” and my husband would chuckle. In no time at all a year had passed and spring was upon us once again. By now I knew those cats were females and I started talking about getting them to the veterinarians.
Although I talked, I didn’t act soon enough. Those young cats became young mothers with rounded bellies. I was not pleased at the thought of finding homes for soon arriving kittens and I still had to look forward to a hefty bill from the vet in a few weeks. I would have those cats fixed to prevent a second round of mothering.
The first cat had just one kitten which was stillborn earlier in the week. The second cat had three beautiful kittens, but they did not live past the first day. I know my children will be heartbroken. I am saddened for them, but I am angry at myself. The pain they are experiencing today could have been prevented if I had not been passive about the situation. It could have been prevented if I had not procrastinated.
The pain my family is experiencing this week is small when compared to other tragedies that are possible in this life. My mind recalls a teen mother that I know who is struggling with guilt, shame, and rejection by her family. I know of women and men who have allowed lust to lead them down a road they never dreamt they would travel. I know parents who watch as their children turn and walk away from God.
Much of our difficulty and pain are brought on by decisions we make along the path of life. God calls us to holiness. This separation unto God is for our benefit. It protects us from the sin that eventually leads to pain and heartache. Holiness doesn’t result from passivity. If you intend to live a life that is pleasing to God, you must live it intentionally. When you recognize an area of weakness or a propensity toward sin, you must act immediately. The devil never fights fair. His goal is your spiritual death and he will do everything he can to win the battle. A pursuit of holiness places you in step with your Commander In Chief. You are most protected when you fight the battle next to His side.
In addition, God calls us to stand as a guard at the watchtower. When you see those you love heading in the wrong direction, please do not procrastinate. The devil wars for their soul as well. Reach out to them in love. Pray in earnest and the Spirit will guide your actions and your speech. Encourage them to pursue holiness.
My friend, passivity and procrastination lead to peril. Holiness is a heart set on God in everything you do. Pursue holiness with renewed vigor. It is well worth the effort. The benefits are eternal. Live intentionally for Him!
You are to be holy to me because I, the LORD, am holy, and I have set you apart from the nations to be my own. Leviticus 20:26 [NIV]
Wednesday, March 16, 2011
Thanks, God! I think.
Someone once told me there is no such thing as a coincidence. Coincidences are really just God at work where we least expect it. Here is my coincidence story.
The time change had gotten the best of me. I was tired and in need of a solid night's sleep. I had to arrive at work early the next morning for an important meeting. I crawled into bed later than I had hoped and immediately fell into a deep sleep. Unfortunately, I was awakened in the middle of the night to the sound of our chocolate lab whining. This was a rare occurrence so I knew I had to get up and attend to her.
As I walked through the laundry room to let the dog out the back door, my foot stepped into a puddle of something wet. I searched for the light to see what calamity awaited. The light revealed a large puddle of dog vomit. Nasty. Not only was my foot soaked, but the puddle had spread far enough to reach my daughter's favorite pair of boots. Double nasty.
While I so needed to be asleep, I grudgingly found the materials needed to clean up the mess. I washed the boots, cleaned the floor, and put the soiled towels into the washer. I knew I was up much longer than I had anticipated. Desperate to see how much sleep I had lost, I grabbed my cell phone to check the time as I crawled into bed.
I was surprised to find my cell phone completely dead. In the rush of the day, I had failed to notice my battery charge was almost depleted. My last task before returning to bed was to turn my phone back on and plug it in to charge. As I did this, I remembered the phone is my morning alarm.
Was this all a coincidence or had God intervened on my behalf?
As I drifted off toward sleep, here's what I concluded:
Had the dog not gotten sick, she wouldn't have whinned to go outside.
Had the dog not needed to go outside, I wouldn't have awakened in the middle of the night.
Had I not been awake so long cleaning, I wouldn't have thought to check the time on my cell phone.
Had I not checked the time, I wouldn't have realized my cell phone was dead.
Had I not turned my phone on and charged it, my alarm wouldn't have gone off in the morning.
Had my alarm not gone off, I would have missed my meeting at work.
Before sleep overtook me, I remember whispering "Thanks, God. I think."
When have you seen the hand of God at work in a similar way? Did you think it was just a coincidence? Or did you take the time to consider that He was arranging the details to work in your favor?
Are you convinced God is at work in your life-even in small and seemingly impossible ways? In the light of morning, I was convinced! Are you willing to give Him credit for the coincidences in your life? If you are a child of God, there is no such thing as a coincidence. It is simply the hand of God at work in ways or places you didn't expect.
Be aware. Feel loved. Give Him credit.
The time change had gotten the best of me. I was tired and in need of a solid night's sleep. I had to arrive at work early the next morning for an important meeting. I crawled into bed later than I had hoped and immediately fell into a deep sleep. Unfortunately, I was awakened in the middle of the night to the sound of our chocolate lab whining. This was a rare occurrence so I knew I had to get up and attend to her.
As I walked through the laundry room to let the dog out the back door, my foot stepped into a puddle of something wet. I searched for the light to see what calamity awaited. The light revealed a large puddle of dog vomit. Nasty. Not only was my foot soaked, but the puddle had spread far enough to reach my daughter's favorite pair of boots. Double nasty.
While I so needed to be asleep, I grudgingly found the materials needed to clean up the mess. I washed the boots, cleaned the floor, and put the soiled towels into the washer. I knew I was up much longer than I had anticipated. Desperate to see how much sleep I had lost, I grabbed my cell phone to check the time as I crawled into bed.
I was surprised to find my cell phone completely dead. In the rush of the day, I had failed to notice my battery charge was almost depleted. My last task before returning to bed was to turn my phone back on and plug it in to charge. As I did this, I remembered the phone is my morning alarm.
Was this all a coincidence or had God intervened on my behalf?
As I drifted off toward sleep, here's what I concluded:
Had the dog not gotten sick, she wouldn't have whinned to go outside.
Had the dog not needed to go outside, I wouldn't have awakened in the middle of the night.
Had I not been awake so long cleaning, I wouldn't have thought to check the time on my cell phone.
Had I not checked the time, I wouldn't have realized my cell phone was dead.
Had I not turned my phone on and charged it, my alarm wouldn't have gone off in the morning.
Had my alarm not gone off, I would have missed my meeting at work.
Before sleep overtook me, I remember whispering "Thanks, God. I think."
When have you seen the hand of God at work in a similar way? Did you think it was just a coincidence? Or did you take the time to consider that He was arranging the details to work in your favor?
Are you convinced God is at work in your life-even in small and seemingly impossible ways? In the light of morning, I was convinced! Are you willing to give Him credit for the coincidences in your life? If you are a child of God, there is no such thing as a coincidence. It is simply the hand of God at work in ways or places you didn't expect.
Be aware. Feel loved. Give Him credit.
Friday, March 11, 2011
Proximity Matters
My son always lags behind. My daughter always darts ahead. It is just in their design.
My son has never been quick about anything. He is tentative, cautious, and never too adventurous. When he was younger and I held his hand, we always walked at a slow pace. There was just no hurrying him along. Even now, he is always several steps behind our family-no matter where we go.
While my son is hesitant to try new things, my daughter is a risk taker. She is carefree, brave, and bold. She embraces life with enthusiasm and would prefer a fast pace. She wants to experience it all. Over the years, there have been many times I have felt the need to rein her in.
As a mother, I want them close to me. Not in front or behind, but beside me. When they are by my side, I can provide protection. I can lead and guide them and prevent them from stumbling. I can do this best when they are next to me. Proximity matters.
In Scripture, salvation is often portrayed as a pathway. Consider the following verses:
Show me your ways, O LORD, teach me your paths; guide me in your truth and teach me, for you are God, my Savior… -Psalm 25:4
Small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it. –Matthew 7:14
Wisdom will save you from the ways of wicked men…who leave the straight paths to walk in dark ways. -Proverbs 2:12, 13
I have committed to walking with Christ. I understand the path is narrow. Experience has taught me that it is less traveled. I am determined to walk with Christ until He calls me home. But, I am learning that proximity matters. As I reflect on my journey thus far, I can see times when I have lagged behind or darted ahead. Here are some examples:
• God convicts me and requests a deeper consecration from me. I drag my feet and lag behind.
• I become impatient with God or I don’t fully comprehend His plan. I forge ahead on my own.
• I plod along in self pity, just barely keeping up as He leads me on.
• In excitement, I throw all caution to the wind and rush in without prayer.
• I hold to an offense, unable to forgive, and I dig in my heels and refuse to move forward.
During these times, although I am still on the right path, my proximity matters. God wants me close to Him. Not in front or behind, but right beside Him. It is there I find protection and guidance. When I walk beside Him, I am less likely to stumble. But if I do when I fall I simply fall into Him. He is that close.
What about you? What is your tendency? Are you more likely to lag behind or dart ahead? Maybe you’re like me and it all depends on your circumstances. Today, take a moment for reflection. Think about the areas of your life and determine where you are in proximity to Christ.
My son has never been quick about anything. He is tentative, cautious, and never too adventurous. When he was younger and I held his hand, we always walked at a slow pace. There was just no hurrying him along. Even now, he is always several steps behind our family-no matter where we go.
While my son is hesitant to try new things, my daughter is a risk taker. She is carefree, brave, and bold. She embraces life with enthusiasm and would prefer a fast pace. She wants to experience it all. Over the years, there have been many times I have felt the need to rein her in.
As a mother, I want them close to me. Not in front or behind, but beside me. When they are by my side, I can provide protection. I can lead and guide them and prevent them from stumbling. I can do this best when they are next to me. Proximity matters.
In Scripture, salvation is often portrayed as a pathway. Consider the following verses:
Show me your ways, O LORD, teach me your paths; guide me in your truth and teach me, for you are God, my Savior… -Psalm 25:4
Small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it. –Matthew 7:14
Wisdom will save you from the ways of wicked men…who leave the straight paths to walk in dark ways. -Proverbs 2:12, 13
I have committed to walking with Christ. I understand the path is narrow. Experience has taught me that it is less traveled. I am determined to walk with Christ until He calls me home. But, I am learning that proximity matters. As I reflect on my journey thus far, I can see times when I have lagged behind or darted ahead. Here are some examples:
• God convicts me and requests a deeper consecration from me. I drag my feet and lag behind.
• I become impatient with God or I don’t fully comprehend His plan. I forge ahead on my own.
• I plod along in self pity, just barely keeping up as He leads me on.
• In excitement, I throw all caution to the wind and rush in without prayer.
• I hold to an offense, unable to forgive, and I dig in my heels and refuse to move forward.
During these times, although I am still on the right path, my proximity matters. God wants me close to Him. Not in front or behind, but right beside Him. It is there I find protection and guidance. When I walk beside Him, I am less likely to stumble. But if I do when I fall I simply fall into Him. He is that close.
What about you? What is your tendency? Are you more likely to lag behind or dart ahead? Maybe you’re like me and it all depends on your circumstances. Today, take a moment for reflection. Think about the areas of your life and determine where you are in proximity to Christ.
Wednesday, February 23, 2011
Express Care
I sat and waited for my husband and daughter to return from the Express Care Clinic. Our daughter was injured in a sporting event. We have learned that athletic ability does not necessarily prevent injury. After a thorough examination and x-rays, our young athlete arrived home 3 hours later with her hand efficiently bandaged and a list of instructions. Apply ice three times a day. Medication for pain as needed. A brace was to be worn continuously. And limited physical activity for a week. Our daughter wasn't very happy. In fact she was past disappointed. She was angry. She doesn't like sitting on the sidelines.
I immediately thought of a recent conversation I had with a fellow believer. The acquaintance spoke of a personal hurt she had experienced. While I didn't ask for details, it was clear she had been offended by someone in ministry at her local church. Her emotions had moved past disappointment and on to something that looked more like anger. As I listened to her words, it became clear that she had been unable to move past the offense. Her hurt and anger had resulted in an intentional pulling away from her church, her Pastor, and even our God. She had chosen to place herself on the sidelines.
When was the last time you were hurt in this game of life? No matter how skilled you are at dealing with people, injuries and offenses are inevitable. When you find you've been offended, how do you react? Do you turn to the Great Physician for immediate care? Are you willing to follow the instuctions He provides to remedy your situation? Do you follow His advice until the pain is gone and complete healing has occured?
Here are a few scriptures to consider regarding offenses:
It is impossible that no offenses should come. -Luke 17:1
Repay no one evil for evil. Have regard for good things in the sight of all men. -Romans 12:17
Do not grumble against one another, brothern, lest you be condemned. -James 5:9
Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you. -Ephesians 4:31-32
And above all things have fervent love for one another, for love will cover a multitude of sins. -1 Peter 4:8
Forgive and you will be forgiven. -Luke 6:37
Despite the challenges that come from living beside carnal people, God is able to empower us to forgive. If we submit to his Spirit, we are able to love with His love. It is pride and self that remind our hearts of offenses. But God requires us to extend mercy. He desires us to remain in the game, working to our full potential as a team player. An inability to forgive and let go will undoubtedly leave us ineffective and on the bench.
Dear Lord,
When I am honest with myself I must admit that I struggle in this area. I can easily reflect and see times when I have withdrawn from your people and your purpose due to hurts I have encountered. Please help me to continually lean on You so I can extend mercy and Your love to those around me who disappoint me. Help me to love past my hurts and become the person you created me to be.
I immediately thought of a recent conversation I had with a fellow believer. The acquaintance spoke of a personal hurt she had experienced. While I didn't ask for details, it was clear she had been offended by someone in ministry at her local church. Her emotions had moved past disappointment and on to something that looked more like anger. As I listened to her words, it became clear that she had been unable to move past the offense. Her hurt and anger had resulted in an intentional pulling away from her church, her Pastor, and even our God. She had chosen to place herself on the sidelines.
When was the last time you were hurt in this game of life? No matter how skilled you are at dealing with people, injuries and offenses are inevitable. When you find you've been offended, how do you react? Do you turn to the Great Physician for immediate care? Are you willing to follow the instuctions He provides to remedy your situation? Do you follow His advice until the pain is gone and complete healing has occured?
Here are a few scriptures to consider regarding offenses:
It is impossible that no offenses should come. -Luke 17:1
Repay no one evil for evil. Have regard for good things in the sight of all men. -Romans 12:17
Do not grumble against one another, brothern, lest you be condemned. -James 5:9
Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you. -Ephesians 4:31-32
And above all things have fervent love for one another, for love will cover a multitude of sins. -1 Peter 4:8
Forgive and you will be forgiven. -Luke 6:37
Despite the challenges that come from living beside carnal people, God is able to empower us to forgive. If we submit to his Spirit, we are able to love with His love. It is pride and self that remind our hearts of offenses. But God requires us to extend mercy. He desires us to remain in the game, working to our full potential as a team player. An inability to forgive and let go will undoubtedly leave us ineffective and on the bench.
Dear Lord,
When I am honest with myself I must admit that I struggle in this area. I can easily reflect and see times when I have withdrawn from your people and your purpose due to hurts I have encountered. Please help me to continually lean on You so I can extend mercy and Your love to those around me who disappoint me. Help me to love past my hurts and become the person you created me to be.
Wednesday, February 16, 2011
Something Pleasing
I found myself searching the aisles for that perfect gift. Valentine's Day was quickly approaching and I had several people I wanted to buy for. I have two beautiful nieces and I wanted to show them I was thinking of them. I also wanted to give something to both of my children; small gifts to honor the holiday and show my love in a tangible way.
Unfortunately, I wasn't impressed with the holiday offerings at my local store. I desired to give something more than a trite card and a few pieces of candy. I wanted my gift to please the recipient. I wanted to see joy on their face when they opened the package.
I took some time to think about what makes a gift really stand out. Most of the gifts which have touched me most through the years have fallen into one the following categories.
~The gift had sentimental value.
~The gift was chosen with thought and care.
~The gift required a sacrifice. In most cases, it was one of time, not money.
~The gift brought me pleasure.
~Often, the gift was for no other reason than to express love.
As I continued my search, God reminded me of this verse in James 1:17
Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows.
I finished the day feeling pleased with myself. I was able to find the right gifts for each person on my list. Oh, sweet success! (I was later rewarded with hugs and kisses.) I felt even more pleased because of the reminder God gave me of His gift of love. I felt loved in extravagant ways. Both by my Heavenly Father and by the family He has blessed me with.
Valentine's Day came and went. And then, this morning I opened my Bible to study. My study partner and I are working our way bit by bit through the book of Ephesians. This was our verse of interest today.
For you were once in darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Live as children of light and find out what pleases the Lord. Ephesians 5:8
After all my effort to pick out Valentine gifts that were perfect for my family, my eyes and heart slowly settled in on the last part of this verse. Find out what pleases the Lord.
As Valentine's Day approached, I had searched and planned ways to show my love to my family. But had I done the same for God? I had thought of Him. I even cherished the gentle reminder of His love He provided for me. I had relaxed in the extravagant love I felt that day. But had I taken the time to return His love in a tangible way? I'm sure my heart whispered back to Him when He quickened my mind to the verse in James. But had I responded in more than a mere whisper, a thought that was fleeting?
He has given me the greatest gift of all. In both simple and extravagant ways, He continues to give to me every day. Even that day, He took time to remind me. He reached down into my world with the gentle reminder in James and wrapped me in His arms- even while I rushed through life looking for gifts for others.
Although God doesn't demand of me, He does desire something from me. In return for all He's done, He desires my love, my devotion, my commitment, and my faithfulness. All of these-gifts He desires. So I sat in my thoughts this morning and pondered my questions once again.
~When was the last time I gave God a gift that had real sentimental value?
~When was the last time I presented Him with something that took careful thought and planning?
~When did I last give a gift that was truly sacrifical? That which required time or energy-not merely my money?
~When was the last time I gave simply because I wanted to demonstrate my love, my thanks, my need for Him?
~How often do I take time to present meaningful gifts that please Him?
What about you? Have you searched to know what pleases the Lord? Have you listened as He spoke His desires to your heart? Have you been willing to give Him a gift that brings Him pleasure? Will you today? Will you tomorrow?
Friday, February 11, 2011
Re-thinking the Daily Post
I’m addicted to social media. Well, maybe not addicted, but I do engage in several. I love to encourage people and I have discovered social media to be one arena in which to work. I enjoy the discussions and uplifting blogs available on internet sites. I write almost weekly here at blogspot and I created a fan page for my ministry, Response to Grace, on facebook.
Without fail, I get on facebook at the crack of dawn each morning to write a daily post meant to encourage those who follow. While posting my daily blurb, I cannot help but notice the posts by others usually written late the night before. Some are funny. Others are depressing. Some contain a little more information than I care to know. A few are downright inappropriate.
Sadly, some of the posts I read are full of negativity and discontent. People post complaints about their spouse, children, in-laws, coworkers, and anyone else that seems to upset them. They post what is wrong with their job, their relationships, and everything inbetween. They seem to share whatever is wrong in their lives, but fail to see the blessings that are present. Reading too many such posts can leave a person discouraged and downhearted.
A daily post can reveal a lot about the inner man. What a person writes is most likely what their heart and mind is dwelling on. Naturally, I don’t expect everyone to be posting daily Bible verses to encourage others. But in the same manner, I don’t expect to find self-professed Christians posting content which is depressing or combative. Isn’t the Christian life a journey to allow God to make us more like Him?
I couldn’t help but think on these instructions by the apostle Paul and wonder how it could apply to our internet usage and daily posts.
Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. Ephesians 4:29 [NIV]
In this verse, unwholesome is the Greek word ‘sapros’, which means bad, rotten, or decayed. Can I take the liberty to re-write this verse in accordance with today’s topic? What if it the verse read like the following-
Do not share posts that are rotten and decayed, but only write words that are helpful in encouraging others and supporting them according to their needs, in order that your posts will benefit those who read them.
The author of James reminds us that if we claim to be religious, but cannot keep a tight rein on our tongue, we deceive ourselves. Do you think God expects us to be watchful of our pen, or rather our keyboard, too?
As Christians, our every action should glorify God. What we say, what we do, and even what we post. People will notice if you practice what you preach; and your practice extends to what you share on the internet.
I want to be pleasing in His sight, don’t you? Where social media is concerned, let’s commit to purity. If needed, ask God to renew your mind and then take Paul's advice in Philippians 4.8 and think on things that are noble and good. Refrain from posts that could be considered unwholesome. Let’s be imitators of Christ in all things!
Without fail, I get on facebook at the crack of dawn each morning to write a daily post meant to encourage those who follow. While posting my daily blurb, I cannot help but notice the posts by others usually written late the night before. Some are funny. Others are depressing. Some contain a little more information than I care to know. A few are downright inappropriate.
Sadly, some of the posts I read are full of negativity and discontent. People post complaints about their spouse, children, in-laws, coworkers, and anyone else that seems to upset them. They post what is wrong with their job, their relationships, and everything inbetween. They seem to share whatever is wrong in their lives, but fail to see the blessings that are present. Reading too many such posts can leave a person discouraged and downhearted.
A daily post can reveal a lot about the inner man. What a person writes is most likely what their heart and mind is dwelling on. Naturally, I don’t expect everyone to be posting daily Bible verses to encourage others. But in the same manner, I don’t expect to find self-professed Christians posting content which is depressing or combative. Isn’t the Christian life a journey to allow God to make us more like Him?
I couldn’t help but think on these instructions by the apostle Paul and wonder how it could apply to our internet usage and daily posts.
Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. Ephesians 4:29 [NIV]
In this verse, unwholesome is the Greek word ‘sapros’, which means bad, rotten, or decayed. Can I take the liberty to re-write this verse in accordance with today’s topic? What if it the verse read like the following-
Do not share posts that are rotten and decayed, but only write words that are helpful in encouraging others and supporting them according to their needs, in order that your posts will benefit those who read them.
The author of James reminds us that if we claim to be religious, but cannot keep a tight rein on our tongue, we deceive ourselves. Do you think God expects us to be watchful of our pen, or rather our keyboard, too?
As Christians, our every action should glorify God. What we say, what we do, and even what we post. People will notice if you practice what you preach; and your practice extends to what you share on the internet.
I want to be pleasing in His sight, don’t you? Where social media is concerned, let’s commit to purity. If needed, ask God to renew your mind and then take Paul's advice in Philippians 4.8 and think on things that are noble and good. Refrain from posts that could be considered unwholesome. Let’s be imitators of Christ in all things!
Thursday, February 3, 2011
A Glimpse of Hope
The storm was all it was predicted to be. Layers of ice hit my small town followed by large amounts of snow. Schools were closed for days as people waited for roads to be cleared and electricity to be restored. All I could see outside my backdoor was a large drift of snow and the hint of our shrubs poking through the top. It seemed desolate; until a bright patch of red caught my eye.
A bright male Cardinal came and perched on top of the snow bank. What a beauty he was! His small body was crimson against a backdrop of colorless land. He spoke of life midst the frozen conditions. I was surprised I hadn’t noticed him before. I guess he had easily blended in before the landscape has become so stark.
It is during some of life’s bleakest times that we fully recognize the beauty God reveals. During our darkest trials, we are driven to God’s presence. There we find a sharp contrast between our broken world and His. In His presence we experience the deepest love, the purest peace, and rare beauty.
How would you describe your current surroundings? Are there areas that seem frozen and lifeless? Are you in the midst of adversity? Let the bleak conditions drive you into God’s presence. Let them stir a passion in your heart to know Him more deeply and to worship Him more authentically. Do not run from a season of storms. Let them linger long enough to feel His mercy fall from heaven in the end. It is truly a beautiful experience.
Blessed is the man who endures trial, for when he has stood the test he will receive the crown of life which God has promised to those who love Him.
James 1:12
A bright male Cardinal came and perched on top of the snow bank. What a beauty he was! His small body was crimson against a backdrop of colorless land. He spoke of life midst the frozen conditions. I was surprised I hadn’t noticed him before. I guess he had easily blended in before the landscape has become so stark.
It is during some of life’s bleakest times that we fully recognize the beauty God reveals. During our darkest trials, we are driven to God’s presence. There we find a sharp contrast between our broken world and His. In His presence we experience the deepest love, the purest peace, and rare beauty.
How would you describe your current surroundings? Are there areas that seem frozen and lifeless? Are you in the midst of adversity? Let the bleak conditions drive you into God’s presence. Let them stir a passion in your heart to know Him more deeply and to worship Him more authentically. Do not run from a season of storms. Let them linger long enough to feel His mercy fall from heaven in the end. It is truly a beautiful experience.
Blessed is the man who endures trial, for when he has stood the test he will receive the crown of life which God has promised to those who love Him.
James 1:12
Tuesday, February 1, 2011
The Right Choice
“I want everything shut down at 12 p.m. so you can get some sleep."
My daughter and her three friends heard the instructions and agreed. While allowing them to stay up much later than normal, we still wanted them to get to bed at a decent time. Too little sleep results in a cranky teenage daughter. This is an occurrence we often try to avoid.
Not being a night owl myself, I ventured toward bed and left my husband to enforce bedtime for the girls. Things proceeded as planned. Much later from my half-conscious state, I heard the troops shuffle down to the basement. My husband climbed in beside me and I drifted back toward sweet dreams.
Unfortunately, my dreams were interrupted at 2:30 a.m. when I awoke to whispers and giggling. Unfortunately for the girls, the noise awakened my husband too. One not-too-happy Papa Bear got out of his warm bed to go enforce the bedtime. After stern words, he returned to bed and we lay in silence to see if the girls would disobey again.
As my ears strained to hear, I silently urged my daughter to make the right choice. I knew a consequence was already forthcoming. The fact that the girls were still awake at 2:30 would result in some serious questioning. The hour set for bedtime had been clear. To their error, they had not obeyed fully. If our daughter failed to make the right choice again, I knew the punishments would begin to pile up.
Spiritually, I am faced with countless decisions. Each and every choice I make effects my surroundings on the road of life ahead. I know God has provided fool proof instructions in His Word. As I read these Truths, I must decide if I will fully obey. Many times, I have stood firm on the precepts in His Word. Other times, I have turned away and chosen a path that looked more inviting.
In times of disobedience, my choices lead to a place of pain and I find myself experiencing the consequences of sin. Even then, I am thankful I can turn to God for forgiveness and help. In His love and mercy, He will speak new direction into my life. He will point to the path that clearly leads home. And once again, I get to make a choice.
How many times has the great cloud of witnesses watched me from above and urged me to make the right choice. What I need to continually remind myself is this one truth:
God only gives solutions to be implemented, not suggestions to be considered.
The message found in His Word is the solution. The instruction He provides through my pastor and Godly counsel is part of the same solution. His way is the only path that leads to life. Any plan I devise on my own is faulty. Remembering His directions are always in my best interest makes the right choice much easier to make.
My daughter and her three friends heard the instructions and agreed. While allowing them to stay up much later than normal, we still wanted them to get to bed at a decent time. Too little sleep results in a cranky teenage daughter. This is an occurrence we often try to avoid.
Not being a night owl myself, I ventured toward bed and left my husband to enforce bedtime for the girls. Things proceeded as planned. Much later from my half-conscious state, I heard the troops shuffle down to the basement. My husband climbed in beside me and I drifted back toward sweet dreams.
Unfortunately, my dreams were interrupted at 2:30 a.m. when I awoke to whispers and giggling. Unfortunately for the girls, the noise awakened my husband too. One not-too-happy Papa Bear got out of his warm bed to go enforce the bedtime. After stern words, he returned to bed and we lay in silence to see if the girls would disobey again.
As my ears strained to hear, I silently urged my daughter to make the right choice. I knew a consequence was already forthcoming. The fact that the girls were still awake at 2:30 would result in some serious questioning. The hour set for bedtime had been clear. To their error, they had not obeyed fully. If our daughter failed to make the right choice again, I knew the punishments would begin to pile up.
Spiritually, I am faced with countless decisions. Each and every choice I make effects my surroundings on the road of life ahead. I know God has provided fool proof instructions in His Word. As I read these Truths, I must decide if I will fully obey. Many times, I have stood firm on the precepts in His Word. Other times, I have turned away and chosen a path that looked more inviting.
In times of disobedience, my choices lead to a place of pain and I find myself experiencing the consequences of sin. Even then, I am thankful I can turn to God for forgiveness and help. In His love and mercy, He will speak new direction into my life. He will point to the path that clearly leads home. And once again, I get to make a choice.
How many times has the great cloud of witnesses watched me from above and urged me to make the right choice. What I need to continually remind myself is this one truth:
God only gives solutions to be implemented, not suggestions to be considered.
The message found in His Word is the solution. The instruction He provides through my pastor and Godly counsel is part of the same solution. His way is the only path that leads to life. Any plan I devise on my own is faulty. Remembering His directions are always in my best interest makes the right choice much easier to make.
Tuesday, January 18, 2011
Running Shoes
My daughter loves a good challenge. She excels at anything physical. She was born to be an athlete. As she has grown, her adventures in t-ball and kiddie soccer have evolved into more serious sports. And this family takes sports seriously.
Our young athlete has recently taken an interest in track. She is a good sprinter, but also loves the challenge of long distance running. Her father has taken measures to help her in whatever way he can. She has learned the techniques of breathing, attended several clinics, and purchased the all important running shoes.
The shoes alone testify that we take the sport seriously. (Might I add we made a special trip to a specialty store to find them.) While many participants will arrive at the track meet in their normal tennis shoes, our daughter will be wearing special running shoes. The benefits are clear. Her new cleats will allow her feet to grip the pavement and give her an extra advantage. Less chance of slipping, more force behind every stride, and obviously, the needed extra to be at her best. Right?
While I am not entirely convinced of the necessity of her running shoes, I couldn't help draw a spiritual correlation between her preparations and my own. You see, I am also running a race. I have dabbled in the sport for a while now. My parents ran this race and introduced it to me at a very young age. More recently, as I matured a bit, my commitment evolved and I began in earnest to train. Like the apostle Paul, I am determined to make the finish line.
After purchasing special shoes for my daughter, I found myself wondering if I have access to spiritual running shoes. What can I 'lace up' that would help me grip the pavement and keep me from sliding from the track? What spiritual actions (or disciplines) might result in more power in every stride and ensure I endure 'til the very end?
Not every runner running this race will have taken measures to ensure they are at their very best. Many might not be willing to make the sacrifice. You see, running shoes can be a little costly. Despite the sacrifice involved, I am determined to take any means available to ensure I run my best. What measures have you taken to make sure you are running the best race possible?
Get out your running shoes and break them in!
Our young athlete has recently taken an interest in track. She is a good sprinter, but also loves the challenge of long distance running. Her father has taken measures to help her in whatever way he can. She has learned the techniques of breathing, attended several clinics, and purchased the all important running shoes.
The shoes alone testify that we take the sport seriously. (Might I add we made a special trip to a specialty store to find them.) While many participants will arrive at the track meet in their normal tennis shoes, our daughter will be wearing special running shoes. The benefits are clear. Her new cleats will allow her feet to grip the pavement and give her an extra advantage. Less chance of slipping, more force behind every stride, and obviously, the needed extra to be at her best. Right?
While I am not entirely convinced of the necessity of her running shoes, I couldn't help draw a spiritual correlation between her preparations and my own. You see, I am also running a race. I have dabbled in the sport for a while now. My parents ran this race and introduced it to me at a very young age. More recently, as I matured a bit, my commitment evolved and I began in earnest to train. Like the apostle Paul, I am determined to make the finish line.
After purchasing special shoes for my daughter, I found myself wondering if I have access to spiritual running shoes. What can I 'lace up' that would help me grip the pavement and keep me from sliding from the track? What spiritual actions (or disciplines) might result in more power in every stride and ensure I endure 'til the very end?
Not every runner running this race will have taken measures to ensure they are at their very best. Many might not be willing to make the sacrifice. You see, running shoes can be a little costly. Despite the sacrifice involved, I am determined to take any means available to ensure I run my best. What measures have you taken to make sure you are running the best race possible?
Get out your running shoes and break them in!
Monday, January 17, 2011
Dirty Dishes
I had really looked forward to serving. I was scheduled to waitress at a local seafood restaurant with several volunteers. All of our tips and 10% of the day’s sales would benefit a local women’s shelter directed by a dear friend. We had spread the word far and wide and were expecting large numbers of people to show in support. I couldn’t wait to interact with everyone. Despite the challenge, I envisioned a day of fun and reward.
Unfortunately, things didn’t proceed as I expected. Before the first customers ever arrived, the owner of the restaurant, a big burly fellow, happened upon me leaning against a bar stool. “If you have time to lean, you have time to clean!” he proclaimed. His observation resulted in my being led to the kitchen to do dishes.
What I found waiting in the kitchen wasn’t just one small sink. The kitchen had several sinks piled high with greasy pots and pans. In addition, bowls with discarded shrimp pieces, alligator, and chicken fat needed cleaned as well. This was not at all what I had envisioned. No happy customers. No tips to contribute to the cause; just a lot of dirty dishes and a wire scrub pad.
This wasn’t the first time my idea of ministry and God’s ideas for me differed. He had altered my plans many times before. During those times, I become fully aware that His thoughts are not my own. What I have learned is that He presents me with a simple choice- “Listen and obey” or “Go your own way”.
I could have graciously refused to help with the dishes. Surely they would have to understand. First, it was not what I had agreed to do that day. Furthermore, I was not really dressed in clothes for scrubbing grease. If I simply refused, I could return to the waitress station and start collecting tips. As I stared at the pile of pans, the two cooks watched to witness my reaction.
The seconds felt like minutes. I felt the Lord prompt my spirit first with verses from Colossians and a second from Philippians.
Colossians 3: 17, 14
And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father…
Philippians 2: 14-15
Do everything without complaining or arguing, so that you may become blameless and pure, children of God, without fault in a crooked and depraved generation, in which you shine like stars…
This day, I chose to listen and obey, and I turned with a smile to take the scrub brush.
What a surprise to discover what had presented as a pile of dirty dishes turned out to be one of the most rewarding days in ministry I have ever had. Not only did I get to scrub countless items clean, I was able to labor beside two faithful men who touched my heart. After witnessing my willingness, the two male cooks had me help by flaying shrimp, frying onion rings and chicken tenders, and preparing plates. Being a witness for Christ had never been so fun. On that day, in the kitchen was where God had needed me most.
Where is God calling you to serve today? Is it all you dreamed it would be or is looking more like a pile of dirty dishes. Whichever the case, do not hesitate. Jump on in with a smile. God leads you to the area He needs you most, and the place God needs you the most is the only place you want to be.
Unfortunately, things didn’t proceed as I expected. Before the first customers ever arrived, the owner of the restaurant, a big burly fellow, happened upon me leaning against a bar stool. “If you have time to lean, you have time to clean!” he proclaimed. His observation resulted in my being led to the kitchen to do dishes.
What I found waiting in the kitchen wasn’t just one small sink. The kitchen had several sinks piled high with greasy pots and pans. In addition, bowls with discarded shrimp pieces, alligator, and chicken fat needed cleaned as well. This was not at all what I had envisioned. No happy customers. No tips to contribute to the cause; just a lot of dirty dishes and a wire scrub pad.
This wasn’t the first time my idea of ministry and God’s ideas for me differed. He had altered my plans many times before. During those times, I become fully aware that His thoughts are not my own. What I have learned is that He presents me with a simple choice- “Listen and obey” or “Go your own way”.
I could have graciously refused to help with the dishes. Surely they would have to understand. First, it was not what I had agreed to do that day. Furthermore, I was not really dressed in clothes for scrubbing grease. If I simply refused, I could return to the waitress station and start collecting tips. As I stared at the pile of pans, the two cooks watched to witness my reaction.
The seconds felt like minutes. I felt the Lord prompt my spirit first with verses from Colossians and a second from Philippians.
Colossians 3: 17, 14
And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father…
Philippians 2: 14-15
Do everything without complaining or arguing, so that you may become blameless and pure, children of God, without fault in a crooked and depraved generation, in which you shine like stars…
This day, I chose to listen and obey, and I turned with a smile to take the scrub brush.
What a surprise to discover what had presented as a pile of dirty dishes turned out to be one of the most rewarding days in ministry I have ever had. Not only did I get to scrub countless items clean, I was able to labor beside two faithful men who touched my heart. After witnessing my willingness, the two male cooks had me help by flaying shrimp, frying onion rings and chicken tenders, and preparing plates. Being a witness for Christ had never been so fun. On that day, in the kitchen was where God had needed me most.
Where is God calling you to serve today? Is it all you dreamed it would be or is looking more like a pile of dirty dishes. Whichever the case, do not hesitate. Jump on in with a smile. God leads you to the area He needs you most, and the place God needs you the most is the only place you want to be.
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