Tuesday, June 21, 2011

Prepared for Peace

Do you believe that God is intentional in all He does? Not just about directing you in ministry, or the big decisions in life. Do you believe He is involved in even the slightest details? I do and here is my latest proof.

Around the beginning of November, I felt a calling to devote time to the memorization of Scripture. I love to study and my writing for Response to Grace Ministries keeps my nose in the Word on a regular basis. But I had never really committed to memorizing God’s Word and hiding it in my heart and mind.

As God started dealing with my heart regarding this matter, I discussed it with my dear friend and accountability partner, Susan. She revealed that God has been speaking to her about the very thing and we committed together to memorize two verses a month throughout the year 2011. In addition, after prayer, Susan felt as if we should memorize verses with a specific theme and/or content. I agreed and began praying for direction.

Through prayer, God directed me to the first verse He desired for me to learn. Psalm 118:1-2 [NIV]

I love you, O LORD, my strength.
The Lord is my rock, my fortress, and my deliverer.
My God is my rock in whom I take refuge. He is my shield and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold.


As December got underway, I wrote my verse on a small index card and started memorizing. I was excited with my new adventure and even decorated a small box to hold all my verses in with the following verse:

I have treasured Your word in my heart so that I may not sin against You. Psalm 119:11

I had no earthly idea how important the contents of that small box would become in the coming months and year.

When Christmas was just days away, my husband was informed his job would be ending on December 31st. The business contract his company had with the State of Illinois was not being renewed. While there existed a slight chance the company would be given a small extension into the New Year, we knew he would soon be out of a job. I held tight to the verse God has supplied for me and reassured my husband that God would provide.

As my husband diligently searched for a new job, I chose my second verse for January and wrote it on my index card.

You are my hiding place. You will protect me from trouble and surround me with songs of deliverance.
Psalm 32:7

Thankfully, God provided my husband with a new job by the middle of February. During this month, God led me to other verses regarding His ability to rescue and save.

Daniel 5:26-27
Proverbs 30:5

March began and my family and I settled into our new routine. With gratitude, I wrote my all time favorite verse on my index card on March 1st.

“For I know the plans I have for you” declares the Lord. “Plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future.”
Jeremiah 29:11

By the middle of March, it became clear that my job would be eliminated at the end of the school year. With budget cuts my school district faced, there was no alternative position for me. I would soon be unemployed. I continued to lean on God and allowed Him to direct me as I choose verse after verse to sustain me.

Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ.

Before March came to an end, I discovered this soon-to-be forty-year old was expecting another child. I cannot begin to describe to you the feelings I experienced. But more than any other, God supplied this unworthy girl with peace.

I cannot report an ability to quickly quote verbatim each of the verses I have on the index cards in my little box. But I have successfully hidden their message in my heart. My mind is at rest and I experience sweet peace. There are twelve verses stashed there now and each reminds me that He alone is my provider. His plans for me are good.

And I am so thankful that He took the time to prepare me for the journey. His subtle prompting to memorize His word did more to prepare me and give me peace than any other act besides daily time spent in His presence. If we only listen and obey, He is so intentional about providing us exactly what we need.

Saturday, April 2, 2011

Passivity, Procrastination, and Peril

Have you ever watched a difficult situation play out and known it could have been prevented? I have. I am currently experiencing one such situation. As I type, I am waiting for my children to awaken so I can tell them our second litter of kittens did not make it through the night.

Just over a year ago, our children requested kittens. My husband and I relented and allowed our daughter to get two kittens from a friend at school. We requested the kittens be males. We planned to do the responsible thing and have the cats fixed to prevent lots of kittens at neighboring houses as soon as they were old enough. (I preferred male cats to female cats because the vet fee for the males to be fixed is much more affordable- I am always looking for the cheapest route)

When the kittens arrived, we were assured the kittens were males. I took a good look at those kittens and I just couldn’t determine if they were truly males or not. I searched the internet for information on sex identification in cats. A second, third, and really numerous examinations of those kittens left me concerned. I voiced my belief that the kittens might be female but didn’t expend the effort or the money to load them up in the car and take them to the vet.

Spring passed and summer arrived. I still couldn’t find any signs of maleness on those kittens. Every once in a while I would make the statement “I think those cats are female!” and my husband would chuckle. In no time at all a year had passed and spring was upon us once again. By now I knew those cats were females and I started talking about getting them to the veterinarians.

Although I talked, I didn’t act soon enough. Those young cats became young mothers with rounded bellies. I was not pleased at the thought of finding homes for soon arriving kittens and I still had to look forward to a hefty bill from the vet in a few weeks. I would have those cats fixed to prevent a second round of mothering.

The first cat had just one kitten which was stillborn earlier in the week. The second cat had three beautiful kittens, but they did not live past the first day. I know my children will be heartbroken. I am saddened for them, but I am angry at myself. The pain they are experiencing today could have been prevented if I had not been passive about the situation. It could have been prevented if I had not procrastinated.

The pain my family is experiencing this week is small when compared to other tragedies that are possible in this life. My mind recalls a teen mother that I know who is struggling with guilt, shame, and rejection by her family. I know of women and men who have allowed lust to lead them down a road they never dreamt they would travel. I know parents who watch as their children turn and walk away from God.

Much of our difficulty and pain are brought on by decisions we make along the path of life. God calls us to holiness. This separation unto God is for our benefit. It protects us from the sin that eventually leads to pain and heartache. Holiness doesn’t result from passivity. If you intend to live a life that is pleasing to God, you must live it intentionally. When you recognize an area of weakness or a propensity toward sin, you must act immediately. The devil never fights fair. His goal is your spiritual death and he will do everything he can to win the battle. A pursuit of holiness places you in step with your Commander In Chief. You are most protected when you fight the battle next to His side.

In addition, God calls us to stand as a guard at the watchtower. When you see those you love heading in the wrong direction, please do not procrastinate. The devil wars for their soul as well. Reach out to them in love. Pray in earnest and the Spirit will guide your actions and your speech. Encourage them to pursue holiness.

My friend, passivity and procrastination lead to peril. Holiness is a heart set on God in everything you do. Pursue holiness with renewed vigor. It is well worth the effort. The benefits are eternal. Live intentionally for Him!

You are to be holy to me because I, the LORD, am holy, and I have set you apart from the nations to be my own. Leviticus 20:26 [NIV]

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Thanks, God! I think.

Someone once told me there is no such thing as a coincidence. Coincidences are really just God at work where we least expect it. Here is my coincidence story.

The time change had gotten the best of me. I was tired and in need of a solid night's sleep. I had to arrive at work early the next morning for an important meeting. I crawled into bed later than I had hoped and immediately fell into a deep sleep. Unfortunately, I was awakened in the middle of the night to the sound of our chocolate lab whining. This was a rare occurrence so I knew I had to get up and attend to her.

As I walked through the laundry room to let the dog out the back door, my foot stepped into a puddle of something wet. I searched for the light to see what calamity awaited. The light revealed a large puddle of dog vomit. Nasty. Not only was my foot soaked, but the puddle had spread far enough to reach my daughter's favorite pair of boots. Double nasty.

While I so needed to be asleep, I grudgingly found the materials needed to clean up the mess. I washed the boots, cleaned the floor, and put the soiled towels into the washer. I knew I was up much longer than I had anticipated. Desperate to see how much sleep I had lost, I grabbed my cell phone to check the time as I crawled into bed.

I was surprised to find my cell phone completely dead. In the rush of the day, I had failed to notice my battery charge was almost depleted. My last task before returning to bed was to turn my phone back on and plug it in to charge. As I did this, I remembered the phone is my morning alarm.

Was this all a coincidence or had God intervened on my behalf?

As I drifted off toward sleep, here's what I concluded:

Had the dog not gotten sick, she wouldn't have whinned to go outside.
Had the dog not needed to go outside, I wouldn't have awakened in the middle of the night.
Had I not been awake so long cleaning, I wouldn't have thought to check the time on my cell phone.
Had I not checked the time, I wouldn't have realized my cell phone was dead.
Had I not turned my phone on and charged it, my alarm wouldn't have gone off in the morning.
Had my alarm not gone off, I would have missed my meeting at work.

Before sleep overtook me, I remember whispering "Thanks, God. I think."

When have you seen the hand of God at work in a similar way? Did you think it was just a coincidence? Or did you take the time to consider that He was arranging the details to work in your favor?

Are you convinced God is at work in your life-even in small and seemingly impossible ways? In the light of morning, I was convinced! Are you willing to give Him credit for the coincidences in your life? If you are a child of God, there is no such thing as a coincidence. It is simply the hand of God at work in ways or places you didn't expect.

Be aware. Feel loved. Give Him credit.

Friday, March 11, 2011

Proximity Matters

My son always lags behind. My daughter always darts ahead. It is just in their design.

My son has never been quick about anything. He is tentative, cautious, and never too adventurous. When he was younger and I held his hand, we always walked at a slow pace. There was just no hurrying him along. Even now, he is always several steps behind our family-no matter where we go.

While my son is hesitant to try new things, my daughter is a risk taker. She is carefree, brave, and bold. She embraces life with enthusiasm and would prefer a fast pace. She wants to experience it all. Over the years, there have been many times I have felt the need to rein her in.

As a mother, I want them close to me. Not in front or behind, but beside me. When they are by my side, I can provide protection. I can lead and guide them and prevent them from stumbling. I can do this best when they are next to me. Proximity matters.

In Scripture, salvation is often portrayed as a pathway. Consider the following verses:

Show me your ways, O LORD, teach me your paths; guide me in your truth and teach me, for you are God, my Savior… -Psalm 25:4

Small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it. –Matthew 7:14

Wisdom will save you from the ways of wicked men…who leave the straight paths to walk in dark ways. -Proverbs 2:12, 13

I have committed to walking with Christ. I understand the path is narrow. Experience has taught me that it is less traveled. I am determined to walk with Christ until He calls me home. But, I am learning that proximity matters. As I reflect on my journey thus far, I can see times when I have lagged behind or darted ahead. Here are some examples:

• God convicts me and requests a deeper consecration from me. I drag my feet and lag behind.

• I become impatient with God or I don’t fully comprehend His plan. I forge ahead on my own.

• I plod along in self pity, just barely keeping up as He leads me on.

• In excitement, I throw all caution to the wind and rush in without prayer.

• I hold to an offense, unable to forgive, and I dig in my heels and refuse to move forward.

During these times, although I am still on the right path, my proximity matters. God wants me close to Him. Not in front or behind, but right beside Him. It is there I find protection and guidance. When I walk beside Him, I am less likely to stumble. But if I do when I fall I simply fall into Him. He is that close.

What about you? What is your tendency? Are you more likely to lag behind or dart ahead? Maybe you’re like me and it all depends on your circumstances. Today, take a moment for reflection. Think about the areas of your life and determine where you are in proximity to Christ.

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Express Care

I sat and waited for my husband and daughter to return from the Express Care Clinic. Our daughter was injured in a sporting event. We have learned that athletic ability does not necessarily prevent injury. After a thorough examination and x-rays, our young athlete arrived home 3 hours later with her hand efficiently bandaged and a list of instructions. Apply ice three times a day. Medication for pain as needed. A brace was to be worn continuously. And limited physical activity for a week. Our daughter wasn't very happy. In fact she was past disappointed. She was angry. She doesn't like sitting on the sidelines.

I immediately thought of a recent conversation I had with a fellow believer. The acquaintance spoke of a personal hurt she had experienced. While I didn't ask for details, it was clear she had been offended by someone in ministry at her local church. Her emotions had moved past disappointment and on to something that looked more like anger. As I listened to her words, it became clear that she had been unable to move past the offense. Her hurt and anger had resulted in an intentional pulling away from her church, her Pastor, and even our God. She had chosen to place herself on the sidelines.

When was the last time you were hurt in this game of life? No matter how skilled you are at dealing with people, injuries and offenses are inevitable. When you find you've been offended, how do you react? Do you turn to the Great Physician for immediate care? Are you willing to follow the instuctions He provides to remedy your situation? Do you follow His advice until the pain is gone and complete healing has occured?

Here are a few scriptures to consider regarding offenses:

It is impossible that no offenses should come. -Luke 17:1

Repay no one evil for evil. Have regard for good things in the sight of all men. -Romans 12:17

Do not grumble against one another, brothern, lest you be condemned. -James 5:9

Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you. -Ephesians 4:31-32

And above all things have fervent love for one another, for love will cover a multitude of sins. -1 Peter 4:8

Forgive and you will be forgiven. -Luke 6:37


Despite the challenges that come from living beside carnal people, God is able to empower us to forgive. If we submit to his Spirit, we are able to love with His love. It is pride and self that remind our hearts of offenses. But God requires us to extend mercy. He desires us to remain in the game, working to our full potential as a team player. An inability to forgive and let go will undoubtedly leave us ineffective and on the bench.

Dear Lord,
When I am honest with myself I must admit that I struggle in this area. I can easily reflect and see times when I have withdrawn from your people and your purpose due to hurts I have encountered. Please help me to continually lean on You so I can extend mercy and Your love to those around me who disappoint me. Help me to love past my hurts and become the person you created me to be.

Wednesday, February 16, 2011

Something Pleasing

I found myself searching the aisles for that perfect gift. Valentine's Day was quickly approaching and I had several people I wanted to buy for. I have two beautiful nieces and I wanted to show them I was thinking of them. I also wanted to give something to both of my children; small gifts to honor the holiday and show my love in a tangible way.

Unfortunately, I wasn't impressed with the holiday offerings at my local store. I desired to give something more than a trite card and a few pieces of candy. I wanted my gift to please the recipient. I wanted to see joy on their face when they opened the package.

I took some time to think about what makes a gift really stand out. Most of the gifts which have touched me most through the years have fallen into one the following categories.

~The gift had sentimental value.
~The gift was chosen with thought and care.
~The gift required a sacrifice. In most cases, it was one of time, not money.
~The gift brought me pleasure.
~Often, the gift was for no other reason than to express love.

As I continued my search, God reminded me of this verse in James 1:17

Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows.

I finished the day feeling pleased with myself. I was able to find the right gifts for each person on my list. Oh, sweet success! (I was later rewarded with hugs and kisses.) I felt even more pleased because of the reminder God gave me of His gift of love. I felt loved in extravagant ways. Both by my Heavenly Father and by the family He has blessed me with.

Valentine's Day came and went. And then, this morning I opened my Bible to study. My study partner and I are working our way bit by bit through the book of Ephesians. This was our verse of interest today.

For you were once in darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Live as children of light and find out what pleases the Lord. Ephesians 5:8


After all my effort to pick out Valentine gifts that were perfect for my family, my eyes and heart slowly settled in on the last part of this verse. Find out what pleases the Lord.

As Valentine's Day approached, I had searched and planned ways to show my love to my family. But had I done the same for God? I had thought of Him. I even cherished the gentle reminder of His love He provided for me. I had relaxed in the extravagant love I felt that day. But had I taken the time to return His love in a tangible way? I'm sure my heart whispered back to Him when He quickened my mind to the verse in James. But had I responded in more than a mere whisper, a thought that was fleeting?

He has given me the greatest gift of all. In both simple and extravagant ways, He continues to give to me every day. Even that day, He took time to remind me. He reached down into my world with the gentle reminder in James and wrapped me in His arms- even while I rushed through life looking for gifts for others.

Although God doesn't demand of me, He does desire something from me. In return for all He's done, He desires my love, my devotion, my commitment, and my faithfulness. All of these-gifts He desires. So I sat in my thoughts this morning and pondered my questions once again.


~When was the last time I gave God a gift that had real sentimental value?

~When was the last time I presented Him with something that took careful thought and planning?

~When did I last give a gift that was truly sacrifical? That which required time or energy-not merely my money?

~When was the last time I gave simply because I wanted to demonstrate my love, my thanks, my need for Him?

~How often do I take time to present meaningful gifts that please Him?

What about you? Have you searched to know what pleases the Lord? Have you listened as He spoke His desires to your heart? Have you been willing to give Him a gift that brings Him pleasure? Will you today? Will you tomorrow?

Friday, February 11, 2011

Re-thinking the Daily Post

I’m addicted to social media. Well, maybe not addicted, but I do engage in several. I love to encourage people and I have discovered social media to be one arena in which to work. I enjoy the discussions and uplifting blogs available on internet sites. I write almost weekly here at blogspot and I created a fan page for my ministry, Response to Grace, on facebook.

Without fail, I get on facebook at the crack of dawn each morning to write a daily post meant to encourage those who follow. While posting my daily blurb, I cannot help but notice the posts by others usually written late the night before. Some are funny. Others are depressing. Some contain a little more information than I care to know. A few are downright inappropriate.

Sadly, some of the posts I read are full of negativity and discontent. People post complaints about their spouse, children, in-laws, coworkers, and anyone else that seems to upset them. They post what is wrong with their job, their relationships, and everything inbetween. They seem to share whatever is wrong in their lives, but fail to see the blessings that are present. Reading too many such posts can leave a person discouraged and downhearted.

A daily post can reveal a lot about the inner man. What a person writes is most likely what their heart and mind is dwelling on. Naturally, I don’t expect everyone to be posting daily Bible verses to encourage others. But in the same manner, I don’t expect to find self-professed Christians posting content which is depressing or combative. Isn’t the Christian life a journey to allow God to make us more like Him?

I couldn’t help but think on these instructions by the apostle Paul and wonder how it could apply to our internet usage and daily posts.

Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. Ephesians 4:29 [NIV]

In this verse, unwholesome is the Greek word ‘sapros’, which means bad, rotten, or decayed. Can I take the liberty to re-write this verse in accordance with today’s topic? What if it the verse read like the following-

Do not share posts that are rotten and decayed, but only write words that are helpful in encouraging others and supporting them according to their needs, in order that your posts will benefit those who read them.

The author of James reminds us that if we claim to be religious, but cannot keep a tight rein on our tongue, we deceive ourselves. Do you think God expects us to be watchful of our pen, or rather our keyboard, too?

As Christians, our every action should glorify God. What we say, what we do, and even what we post. People will notice if you practice what you preach; and your practice extends to what you share on the internet.

I want to be pleasing in His sight, don’t you? Where social media is concerned, let’s commit to purity. If needed, ask God to renew your mind and then take Paul's advice in Philippians 4.8 and think on things that are noble and good. Refrain from posts that could be considered unwholesome. Let’s be imitators of Christ in all things!

Thursday, February 3, 2011

A Glimpse of Hope

The storm was all it was predicted to be. Layers of ice hit my small town followed by large amounts of snow. Schools were closed for days as people waited for roads to be cleared and electricity to be restored. All I could see outside my backdoor was a large drift of snow and the hint of our shrubs poking through the top. It seemed desolate; until a bright patch of red caught my eye.

A bright male Cardinal came and perched on top of the snow bank. What a beauty he was! His small body was crimson against a backdrop of colorless land. He spoke of life midst the frozen conditions. I was surprised I hadn’t noticed him before. I guess he had easily blended in before the landscape has become so stark.

It is during some of life’s bleakest times that we fully recognize the beauty God reveals. During our darkest trials, we are driven to God’s presence. There we find a sharp contrast between our broken world and His. In His presence we experience the deepest love, the purest peace, and rare beauty.

How would you describe your current surroundings? Are there areas that seem frozen and lifeless? Are you in the midst of adversity? Let the bleak conditions drive you into God’s presence. Let them stir a passion in your heart to know Him more deeply and to worship Him more authentically. Do not run from a season of storms. Let them linger long enough to feel His mercy fall from heaven in the end. It is truly a beautiful experience.

Blessed is the man who endures trial, for when he has stood the test he will receive the crown of life which God has promised to those who love Him.
James 1:12

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

The Right Choice

“I want everything shut down at 12 p.m. so you can get some sleep."

My daughter and her three friends heard the instructions and agreed. While allowing them to stay up much later than normal, we still wanted them to get to bed at a decent time. Too little sleep results in a cranky teenage daughter. This is an occurrence we often try to avoid.

Not being a night owl myself, I ventured toward bed and left my husband to enforce bedtime for the girls. Things proceeded as planned. Much later from my half-conscious state, I heard the troops shuffle down to the basement. My husband climbed in beside me and I drifted back toward sweet dreams.

Unfortunately, my dreams were interrupted at 2:30 a.m. when I awoke to whispers and giggling. Unfortunately for the girls, the noise awakened my husband too. One not-too-happy Papa Bear got out of his warm bed to go enforce the bedtime. After stern words, he returned to bed and we lay in silence to see if the girls would disobey again.

As my ears strained to hear, I silently urged my daughter to make the right choice. I knew a consequence was already forthcoming. The fact that the girls were still awake at 2:30 would result in some serious questioning. The hour set for bedtime had been clear. To their error, they had not obeyed fully. If our daughter failed to make the right choice again, I knew the punishments would begin to pile up.

Spiritually, I am faced with countless decisions. Each and every choice I make effects my surroundings on the road of life ahead. I know God has provided fool proof instructions in His Word. As I read these Truths, I must decide if I will fully obey. Many times, I have stood firm on the precepts in His Word. Other times, I have turned away and chosen a path that looked more inviting.

In times of disobedience, my choices lead to a place of pain and I find myself experiencing the consequences of sin. Even then, I am thankful I can turn to God for forgiveness and help. In His love and mercy, He will speak new direction into my life. He will point to the path that clearly leads home. And once again, I get to make a choice.

How many times has the great cloud of witnesses watched me from above and urged me to make the right choice. What I need to continually remind myself is this one truth:

God only gives solutions to be implemented, not suggestions to be considered.

The message found in His Word is the solution. The instruction He provides through my pastor and Godly counsel is part of the same solution. His way is the only path that leads to life. Any plan I devise on my own is faulty. Remembering His directions are always in my best interest makes the right choice much easier to make.

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Running Shoes

My daughter loves a good challenge. She excels at anything physical. She was born to be an athlete. As she has grown, her adventures in t-ball and kiddie soccer have evolved into more serious sports. And this family takes sports seriously.

Our young athlete has recently taken an interest in track. She is a good sprinter, but also loves the challenge of long distance running. Her father has taken measures to help her in whatever way he can. She has learned the techniques of breathing, attended several clinics, and purchased the all important running shoes.

The shoes alone testify that we take the sport seriously. (Might I add we made a special trip to a specialty store to find them.) While many participants will arrive at the track meet in their normal tennis shoes, our daughter will be wearing special running shoes. The benefits are clear. Her new cleats will allow her feet to grip the pavement and give her an extra advantage. Less chance of slipping, more force behind every stride, and obviously, the needed extra to be at her best. Right?

While I am not entirely convinced of the necessity of her running shoes, I couldn't help draw a spiritual correlation between her preparations and my own. You see, I am also running a race. I have dabbled in the sport for a while now. My parents ran this race and introduced it to me at a very young age. More recently, as I matured a bit, my commitment evolved and I began in earnest to train. Like the apostle Paul, I am determined to make the finish line.

After purchasing special shoes for my daughter, I found myself wondering if I have access to spiritual running shoes. What can I 'lace up' that would help me grip the pavement and keep me from sliding from the track? What spiritual actions (or disciplines) might result in more power in every stride and ensure I endure 'til the very end?

Not every runner running this race will have taken measures to ensure they are at their very best. Many might not be willing to make the sacrifice. You see, running shoes can be a little costly. Despite the sacrifice involved, I am determined to take any means available to ensure I run my best. What measures have you taken to make sure you are running the best race possible?

Get out your running shoes and break them in!

Monday, January 17, 2011

Dirty Dishes

I had really looked forward to serving. I was scheduled to waitress at a local seafood restaurant with several volunteers. All of our tips and 10% of the day’s sales would benefit a local women’s shelter directed by a dear friend. We had spread the word far and wide and were expecting large numbers of people to show in support. I couldn’t wait to interact with everyone. Despite the challenge, I envisioned a day of fun and reward.

Unfortunately, things didn’t proceed as I expected. Before the first customers ever arrived, the owner of the restaurant, a big burly fellow, happened upon me leaning against a bar stool. “If you have time to lean, you have time to clean!” he proclaimed. His observation resulted in my being led to the kitchen to do dishes.

What I found waiting in the kitchen wasn’t just one small sink. The kitchen had several sinks piled high with greasy pots and pans. In addition, bowls with discarded shrimp pieces, alligator, and chicken fat needed cleaned as well. This was not at all what I had envisioned. No happy customers. No tips to contribute to the cause; just a lot of dirty dishes and a wire scrub pad.

This wasn’t the first time my idea of ministry and God’s ideas for me differed. He had altered my plans many times before. During those times, I become fully aware that His thoughts are not my own. What I have learned is that He presents me with a simple choice- “Listen and obey” or “Go your own way”.

I could have graciously refused to help with the dishes. Surely they would have to understand. First, it was not what I had agreed to do that day. Furthermore, I was not really dressed in clothes for scrubbing grease. If I simply refused, I could return to the waitress station and start collecting tips. As I stared at the pile of pans, the two cooks watched to witness my reaction.

The seconds felt like minutes. I felt the Lord prompt my spirit first with verses from Colossians and a second from Philippians.

Colossians 3: 17, 14

And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father…

Philippians 2: 14-15

Do everything without complaining or arguing, so that you may become blameless and pure, children of God, without fault in a crooked and depraved generation, in which you shine like stars…

This day, I chose to listen and obey, and I turned with a smile to take the scrub brush.

What a surprise to discover what had presented as a pile of dirty dishes turned out to be one of the most rewarding days in ministry I have ever had. Not only did I get to scrub countless items clean, I was able to labor beside two faithful men who touched my heart. After witnessing my willingness, the two male cooks had me help by flaying shrimp, frying onion rings and chicken tenders, and preparing plates. Being a witness for Christ had never been so fun. On that day, in the kitchen was where God had needed me most.

Where is God calling you to serve today? Is it all you dreamed it would be or is looking more like a pile of dirty dishes. Whichever the case, do not hesitate. Jump on in with a smile. God leads you to the area He needs you most, and the place God needs you the most is the only place you want to be.

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

Simply Stuck

The national weather has recently altered the travel plans of thousands. Last week, people were stuck in airports on the East Coast. Flights from Atlanta, New York, and Philedephia were grounded due to a huge ice storm that left the coast reeling. Passengers grumbled and complained but were ultimately forced to wait the storm out. Days ago, drivers were piling up on a freeway in California as they waited for plows to remove snow that obstructed their path. In blizzard like conditions, people rushed to find nearby shelter and many were reported to have spent the night in their cars. People wanting to be somewhere else, but finding they were simply stuck.

Today, as I sit and type, I have been holed up in the warmth of my home for three days. Several inches of snow and bitter winds have cancelled surrounding schools and shut down most of the small communities around me. Although my husband has plowed our driveway several times, the winds quickly replace the snow he has cleared, leaving my driveway impassible. Like the other travelers mentioned previously, I find that I, too, am simply stuck. The main difference being I do not mind. I am content where I am at.

Finding yourself in a place of confinement can produce much stress. Knowing where you want to be, and being unable to move yourself to that point, can result in anger, frustration, and even depression. Humans like to be in control. When control is removed from our hands, some immediately feel helpless and vulnerable.

In a spiritual sense, we desire control as well. We like our independence and the ability to plan for ourselves. Often, we set goals and devise plans to take us from where we are to where we think we need to be. We construct such plans for ourselves, our families, and even our church. We calculate our path, adjust our speed, and carefully monitor our progress so we will reach our desired destination on time. Ufortunately, we often proceed with our plans without consulting the Master Planner. When this occurs we might just find ourselves on a long highway piled with snow.

You see, sometimes the storms of life roll in. If we have stuck close by His side, we will never be stuck in an isolated place. When we follow in His steps, we move only when He advances. We wait patiently when He slows and stop if He pauses. We will not experience undo anxiety or stress when we are sheltered in His Presence. We have all we need, we are loved, and we feel peace. Much like my respite from the cold these last few days. What others might view as being stuck is nothing more than a time holed up in a warm place with Him.

But what about those times we have not remained by His side and find ourselves truly stuck and unable to move? How should we react? How do we find our way back?

When we realize we are losing control, our human instinct tells us to fight to gain it back. When we perceive that we have become stuck we fly into action to remedy the situation. Without pause, we will often reevaluate, recalculate and try a new method. We frantically search for answers while God is waiting for us to discard our plans and turn to His.

The solution is to cry out to the Lord and to wait on Him to make Himself known. Tune your ear once again to His voice and listen to what He will speak into your situation.

He will hear your cry.
He will come and find you.
He will rescue you from your distress.
He will shelter you until all danger has passed.
Then, He will fulfill His purpose for you.
For great is His love and faithfulness, it reaches to the heavens.


Adapted from Psalm 57.

The Right Choice

"I want everything shut down at 12 p.m. so you can get some sleep."

My daughter and her three friends heard the instructions and agreed. While allowing them to stay up much later than normal, we still wanted them to get to bed at a decent time. Too little sleep results in a cranky pre-teen daugher and this is an occurrence we often try to avoid.

Not being a night owl myself, I ventured toward bed at a much earlier time and left my husband to enforce bedtime for the girls. Things proceeded as planned. Much later from my half-conscious state, I heard the troops shuffle down to the basement. My husband climbed in beside me and I drifted back toward my sweet dreams.

Unfortunately, my dreams were interrupted at 2:30 a.m. when I awoke to whispers and giggling. Unfortunately for the girls, the noise awakened my husband too. One not-too-happy Papa Bear got out of his warm bed to go enforce the bedtime. After stern words, he returned to bed and we lay in silence to see if the girls would disobey again.

As my ears strained to hear, I silently urged my daughter to make the right choice. I knew a consequence was already forthcoming. The fact that the girls were still awake at 2:30 would result in some serious questioning. The hour set for bedtime had been clear. To their error, they had not obeyed fully. If our daughter failed to make the right choice again, I knew the punishments would begin to pile up.

Spiritually, I am faced with countless decisions. Each and every choice I make effects my surroundings on the road of life just ahead. I know God has provided fool proof instructions in His Word. As I read these Truths, I must decide if I will fully obey. Many times, I have stood firm on the precepts in His Word. Other times, I have turned away and chosen a path that looked more inviting.

In times of disobedience, my choices lead to a place of pain and I find myself experiencing the consequences of sin. Even then, I can thankfully turn to God for forgiveness and help. In His love and mercy, He will speak new direction into my life. He will point to the path that clearly leads home. And once again, I get to make a choice.

How many times has the great cloud of witnesses watched me from above and urged me to make the right choice. What I need to continually remind myself is this one truth:

God only gives solutions to be implemented, not suggestions to be considered.

The message found in His Word is the solution. The instruction He provides through my pastor and Godly counsel is part of the same solution. His way is the only path that will lead to life. Any plan I devise on my own is faulty. If I remember His directions are always in my best interest, the right choice is much easier to make.

Saturday, January 8, 2011

The Right Questions

I love spending time with my niece. Her inquisitive nature keeps me on my toes. She is like a little sponge soaking up every bit of information. Her questions are both funny and endless.

Humans were created to be emotional and intellectual creatures. We were created in the image of God. In fact, God wired us to ask questions only He can answer. Questions such as What is Turth? Why am I here? and What is my purpose? These questions start us on a search that hopefully leads to God.

These initial questions are only the beginning. As long as we live and breath, we will continue to ask questions. God planned it that way. However, we will not recieve an immediate answer to every questioned asked. There are some answers that remain hidden until eternity. Many people get hung up fretting over answers that have not arrived. When we are unable to trust God with our uncertainties, our sinful nature can cause us to dwell on all the wrong questions. Questions like "Why me?" and "When will the answer come?" divert our attention from the plan God has for our present.

When you find yourself in a situation that you cannot explain or understand, it is helpful to ask the following questions:






  • How can I bring You glory in this situation?




  • What is it You are trying to teach me now?




  • Who will be influenced by my actions during this time?




Asking the right questions can make a huge difference. Rather than getting slowed down by questions which leave us spinning our spiritual tires, good questions will propel us forward. God wants us to continue asking and He wants our questions to bring us closer to Him.




What questions have been circling in your mind? Are they questions that tend to stunt your spiritual growth? Do you need to adjust your thoughts and perspective? Ask God to help you focus on questions that will result in growth and produce fruit in your life.


The Infallible Road Map

It was time for a vacation with extended family. This trip involved eleven people, two over sized and over stuffed vehicles, and two new GPS systems- one for each vehicle. My husband had consulted the map and knew exactly where we needed to go. It was a route we had traveled numerous times. However, our smaller vehicle had been passed over for a larger one and my husband wasn't one of the drivers. We all piled in and the chosen drivers started the engines. The GPS systems were fired up and programmed to take us on the shortest route available. Modern technology, what a blessing. What could go wrong?

I settled in for the long drive, but soon noticed my husband was beginning to fidget. As I took inventory of our surroundings, I immediately realized our small caravan had not taken the route my husband and I were so accustomed to. Not a problem, right? The GPS system had simply chosen an alternate course. A shorter route. A better choice.

It didn't take long for my husband to voice his concerns. "Aren't you planning to get on the interstate?", he asked. This, and several other inquiries, produced the same result. The drivers, after consulting with each other by cell phone, decided to stick with the route provided by the GPS. They were confident it provided the best plan.

My husband set back in his seat and determined to hold his tongue. He was not in the driver's seat so he abided by the decision of those driving. Thankfully, he had all he could take 45 minutes later when we were traveling at a very slow speed down a one lane dirt road between two corn fields. No joke. The smooth ride and fast pace of the interstate had not yet been reached. In addition, not one town or restroom could be seen on the distant horizon. This held the potential for being the longest and most miserable road trip ever.

Despite the promise of securing the best route available, the GPS had failed us miserably. Additionally, because the chosen drivers had not consulted a traditional road map before embarking, they failed to recognize the advice given by the GPS was faulty. Their lack of preparation, and dependence on a device prone to error, added unnecessary time and frustration to our trip. Fortunately, because he had consulted the map, my husband was able to take the wheel and lead the caravan to the interstate.

In this day of modern Christianity, there are many different avenues for strengthening one's faith. The internet provides worship services and sermons at the click of a mouse. Bible study and home fellowship groups are the newest phenomenon. Devotionals and blogs providing encouragement and direction abound to help you in your faith walk. With profound advice available, writers like Warren, Osteen, Maxwell, and Blackaby are producing best sellers left and right. Unfortunately, while looking for the easiest and most direct route to mature faith, many people turn to these options and neglect the original road map, the Bible.

The Bible is infallible.

infallible

1.) incapable of erring
2.) incapable of failing
3.) incapable of error in declaring doctrine on faith or morals.

The Bible is the best source for spiritual direction. It is an infallible road map and cannot lead you astray. Any other source comes from mere man, and man- no matter how spiritual- is capable of error. While other sources of study and/or encouragement can supplement the information obtained from the Word of God, they should never replace it.

Are you prone to using a spiritual GPS system of some kind or do you have a first-hand knowledge of the route you should take? In your assessment, here are some simple questions you might want to consider.

-Do you rely on the words of others for your direction or do you consult the Bible for yourself?

-Are you satisfied with the spiritual nourishment you receive during Sunday's service or do you sit down with your Bible to regularly feast on its truths?

-Would you immediately recognize the danger if someone or something began to lead you down a route that ventured from Biblical truth?

When one has a personal knowledge of the truths presented in the Bible, he or she is not easily deceived or led astray. The only way to know and effectively hide the Word of God in your heart is to read it and experience it for yourself. Why not set aside an additional amount of time today to simply soak up the message God's word has for you. It is alive and active. If you allow God to, He will use His Word to speak a specific word into your life today.

Your word, O LORD, is eternal; it stands firm in the heavens.
Oh, how I love your law! I meditate on it all day long.
Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.
The statutes You have laid down are righteous; they are fully trustworthy.


~from Psalm 119

Sunday, January 2, 2011

A Slippery Slide

As the Puritan water truck came up the driveway, I wondered if it would make it up. I live at the top of a hill and the driveway is a continuous incline to the top. On this particular day, snow and ice covered the drive and made the conditions hazardous. With care, the truck made it to the top and I stepped out on the porch to meet the driver.

As we stood and exchanged greetings, a scary thing happened. The large water truck began to slide down the driveway. Helpless and unsure what to do, the driver watched in horror as his truck picked up speed and continued down the drive. The seconds seemed to drag for hours as we waited to see the outcome of this potential disaster. We both let out a sigh of relief when the truck slid completely off the drive and came to a stop in the snow drift in my front yard.

Although a disaster was averted, the truck driver still had a huge problem on his hands. And really, the driver was not at fault. He had done everything that was expected of him. After assessing the risk, the driver had proceeded up my drive with great caution. He had parked the truck and put on his emergency break. Unfortunately, all his care didn't prevent his truck from sliding in the slippery conditions.

Spiritually speaking, can you recall a time you found yourself in a precarious position because you cautiously proceeded into an area that really should have been avoided altogether? In error, we have enough confidence in our flesh to believe if we venture into dangerous areas with great care we will be able to remain in control. How foolish! Even if we proceed cautiously and apply the break when we think we have reached a stable place, we are still in danger of sliding.

Once the Puritan truck was pulled from my yard and safely on the road again, I assured the driver that skipping my drive completely was acceptable the next time it looked hazardous. I also had a long talk with God. I thanked Him for the ability to feel conviction when He prompts me to stay clear of an area He finds too risky for me. I also asked for wisdom and a desire to simply trust and obey. He knows me better than I know myself. He knows what I can handle and also what I need to avoid so I don't find myself struggling on a slope of compromise. I don't want to live my life on a slippery slide. I want my feet planted on solid ground.

My soul finds rest in God alone; my salvation comes from Him. He alone is my rock and my salvation; He is my fortress, I will never be shaken. Psalm 62:1-2